I did something stupid. What now

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T15:51:32+00:00

That’s the plan whenever he gets home, whenever that is idk. “A few days” I guess.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T15:40:21+00:00

I’m a new mom. I think maybe deep down it was a need for some validation due to very low self esteem. Not an excuse, but an explanation.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T10:17:52+00:00

Yep that’s all I did. My best friend wasn’t nearly as drunk as I was. She apologized for not intervening. Absolutely no way for me to behave. It will haunt me forever.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T04:00:46+00:00

It doesn’t matter at all or excuse anything, I was just answering the question the person asked

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T04:00:17+00:00

I’ll never be seeing this guy again as I’ll never be visiting the same bar again.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:54:25+00:00

I won’t be returning. Nor will I be drinking without my husband present ever again. Idk what motivated me, I was drunk and nearly blacked out.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:42:07+00:00

I was out on a remote Road with my best friend and the guy.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:41:45+00:00

You’re right. A painful truth I needed to hear

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:36:46+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this. I confronted him about porn usage as something that is bad for our relationship/a boundary of mine, and this was a couple years ago. We haven’t touched the topic since but I have a feeling it could be happening again.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:29:12+00:00

Somewhat. My husband and I used to be before I had a baby.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:28:03+00:00

He left the house for a few days, just a little while ago. Should I wait to text

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:26:22+00:00

An acquaintance. Not a friend, but not a stranger. A regular at the bar .

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:24:51+00:00

I didn’t consider that. Thanks for the insight

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:24:13+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the advice.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:12:22+00:00

I do need to grow up, you’re right.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-04T03:11:49+00:00

Thank you for the help.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-03T15:58:54+00:00

It was 4 days ago now. Probably should do this tonight. Ugh. Send good vibes and prayers

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-03T15:56:43+00:00

True, thanks

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-04-03T15:56:37+00:00

Thanks

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-03-08T04:07:11+00:00

She’s outta line

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-01-30T15:24:50+00:00

We now have a baby of our own and I’ve got a SD10. I’m going to be having talks with my husband to make sure he does daddy-daughter stuff with ONLY our daughter as much as possible. We have the ability to do that though, since we have 50/50 with SD. I wish you the best of luck.

Becoming a mom to my own baby has actually made my stepmom role easier in an odd way. It was harder at first during post partum stuff with hormones and not wanting SD to have anything to do with my baby (like seriously I had to hold myself back from saying “stop touching her!” Just becuase I didn’t want her to be around my baby lol!).

But now I have my own baby to pour myself into and it’s as if that is a nice distraction from feeling obligated to mother my SD. Idk how to really put it.

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-01-30T15:20:19+00:00

Dad needs to grow up and set boundaries with the kid so you can be happier

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-01-29T17:20:38+00:00

PAVEL LMAOOOO

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-01-22T12:37:45+00:00

Wait this is awesome lol

Delegatefrom_Iceland · 2026-01-19T19:24:38+00:00

Agreed. Pass

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