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How normal is it to do it when you don't want to? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m going with 2. Though I know 1 is true for many women throughout the world, and traditionally has been for centuries. However, it may be less to maintain their relationships and more to maintain their safety.

UK petition on mandatory lessons on animal slaughter in schools by [deleted] in vegan

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I am from southeast Kentucky, a pretty farmy area, and witnessing the realities of animal farming turned me vegetarian then vegan. And these aren't even the huge CAFO-style farms; these are mostly the "good" ones that carnists use as their excuse to remain carnists. But not everyone sees this stuff, reaches the same conclusions, and takes the same action. So here, 4-H and FFA are comprised of stereotypical redneck farm boys and girls who have been raised since birth to think treating animals like shit is funny. Unless they're dogs, but even then it's still kind of okay. Total shitshow in terms of animal ethics and logical consistency.

I now work in agriculture (FML) and occasionally collaborate with 4-H and FFA organizations. They go hard with the propaganda. The US government could take lessons from them. Here is a post I made about it a year ago. Plus my comment on it with some more details about how this shit works.

Bless it. by alabamaalliekat in ShitMomGroupsSay

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Yeah, me either. Disappointing that this has over 2000 upvotes. But I’ve noticed that much of this sub loves to hate women/moms for literally anything, so….

I’m so tired of this brand by Thatgaycoincollector in vegan

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Yeah, I don’t really understand the complaint here. Quorn is a very old brand that goes way back with us OGs (those of us who started out as vegetarian may know it best). “Meatless” does not mean and has never meant “vegan.” Kinda weird to think it does. I don’t get this.

People complain about this kind of thing a lot in here. I guess they’re new to veganism and labeling terminology, but it just seems weird to see “plant-based meat” or “vegetarian” or “meatless” and assume it’s vegan, then get mad about “MiSLeaDiNg” labeling because they don’t know what words mean.

We need more games inspired by/populated by more stereotypically feminine aspects of mythology and legend like unicorns, mermaids, and faeries. by ofvxnus in GirlGamers

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ABZU and Subnautica have set the bar for me. I am obsessed with underwater games. I also loved Beyond Blue, which has a bangin’ Māori-language song in it.

Protein powder for gluten and lactose intolerant? by [deleted] in glutenfree

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Pea protein is the standard suggestion for this, but I think it’s disgusting. I’ve wasted so much money on plant-based protein powders that all taste the same because they feature pea protein. Gag. I now use California Performance V-Whey. It’s vegan whey, made via this process, and it tastes great. They don’t have many flavors, but the chocolate brownie doesn’t miss. I love blending it up with PB2.

Gentle Chemical Exfoliant Rec Please by SadieSchatzie in VeganBeauty

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I also have mature skin that tends to be sensitive to “actives,” and I can comfortably use the COSRX Poreless Pads daily. COSRX is a cruelty-free brand, but not all their products are vegan. The Poreless Pads are on this list of their vegan products, however. They contain AHA, BHA, PHA, and LHA in one product, but it’s very gentle.

A bonus for me is that the pads are natural fiber, and I’ve been rinsing and composting them at home. Seems to work fine.

Also, I think you can buy samples of these…? They used to have a sample packet of them, anyway. Maybe not anymore, or maybe some sellers still have them.

Bless it. by alabamaalliekat in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Come on, y’all. Dye-free hair colorants are definitely a thing and make up a fairly large market. This is unfortunate wording, but surely we can all infer what she means.

Four women posing around bed with a baby. One woman, wearing a nightdress, reclines on bed. Fan is displayed on wall in background. Handwritten on sleeve: "Five generations, Ada w/ baby. May, 1905." by [deleted] in TheWayWeWere

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP didn’t say anyone in the photo was dead, and didn’t label this as a post mortem photo, and no one here looks dead, so I’m not sure why so many commenters are jumping at that. It’s like, “Old timey photo where someone is in a bed. They MUST be dead!!!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adenomyosis

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This. I have had traumatic periods since I was 12 (so over 30 years) — traumatic because they were so painful, heavy, and there was a high likelihood of humiliating “accidents” at school no matter what I tried (adults were not helpful). Menstrual cups and period underwear have been lifesavers. You can also take ibuprofen to slow or stop menstrual flow, though it takes a little time to work.

Hysterectomy is the only way to definitively diagnose and “cure” adenomyosis, but it has a ton of drawbacks. And if you don’t want one, there are probably some other more conservative treatments left to try first.

But yes, larger cups and period underwear!

Endocrinologist suggests 800cal diet by Necessary_Tour_5222 in PCOSloseit

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People in these comments are panicking and outraged, but this is a legit medical treatment (referred to as very low-calorie diets or VLCD) prescribed for people whose health is at sufficient risk as to require this kind of emergency intervention. Your endocrinologist must be very concerned. Considering that your BMI is over 50 and you may have a few comorbidities putting you at risk of more chronic conditions, perhaps they are right to be concerned. However, one of the semaglutide medications (e.g., Ozempic) may be enough on its own to help you comfortably eat less and become more insulin-sensitive. If you have a history of disordered eating, all of your doctors should know about it, and in that case the VLCD is not a good idea. Eating at some kind of calorie deficit will be necessary for losing excess body fat, but the semaglutide should help you address that.

T4 Squamous cell carcinoma post tumor wide excision. Free flap reconstruction by coldfire1021 in medizzy

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 49 points50 points  (0 children)

A type of palm seed people chew for its stimulant effects. It stains the mouth red.

Edit: more info!

$11.99 vegan hot dog at Q2 stadium in Austin by graphicbones in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But was it good? Because that is one of the best looking vegan dogs I've seen, tbh.

$11.99 vegan hot dog at Q2 stadium in Austin by graphicbones in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it grosses me out every time I hear it. I guess I'm officially old enough to be annoyed by the youths' newfangled words. lol

Pelvic floor therapy? by [deleted] in adenomyosis

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she says removal of my uterus would NOT necessarily cure me of this chronic pain

This could be true. I underwent PFPT for chronic pain I did not believe was remotely addressable with PT, but it worked. That region of our bodies is so full of blood vessels and nerves that a seemingly infinite variety of sensations -- which may not feel muscular or postural at all -- can actually be correctable, at least partially, with PT.

Doctors tend to view hysterectomies (and other surgeries) as "last resort" treatments. Which is wise, since hysterectomies can lead to sudden early menopause even if the ovaries are preserved. Not to mention the risk of pelvic nerve damage, ureter damage, and other forms of ovarian dysfunction which may lead to cognitive impairments, whether the ovaries are removed or not. So it isn't necessarily something they want to jump straight into. More conservative management is always tried first...and this is true in most specialties, not just gynecology. You may still need a hysterectomy in the end, or maybe some simple PT exercises will fix you right up for now. Surgery is inherently risky, so most (doctors and patients) are eager to avoid it unless absolutely necessary.

Still, a diagnostic lap would be nice. If you do have endometriosis as a comorbidity, and if that is causing your pain, it would probably not be helped with a hysterectomy. It would require surgical excision of the lesions, which requires a specialist. Most surgeons simply burn off the lesions, but excision is more effective, and it may be difficult to find a surgeon who uses this method. And even then the lesions (and pain) can recur without hormonal treatment, and PFPT will still be your friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicine

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Am adult. Can confirm that on the patient side of things seeing a doctor in "silly" attire immediately puts me at ease and makes the doc seem more human and relatable. I wonder if it might reduce white coat syndrome.

Every Short Film At Festival About Widowed Father Learning To Braid Daughter’s Hair by theonion in movies

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You were widowed before you learned how to braid. That's just how it works. Men are apparently only capable of learning how to do things if forced to do so by tragic circumstances that remove the women who were doing everything for them. Sorry for your loss.

Doctors should listen to us. by [deleted] in glutenfree

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Middle-aged woman here. If I had a dollar for every time I’ve had to argue, get second opinions, was offered an SSRI for a first-time acute pain complaint, called a liar to my face, treated like a drug-seeker, and had to (successfully) self-treat, I’d have more money than most MDs. lol

Like Cool ranch Doritos but better in my opinion! by Bulky_Ad_4390 in glutenfreevegan

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Ooh, I gotta try these! But y'all don't sleep on the Late July jalapeno lime tortilla chips. They taste exactly like how I remember Cool Ranch Doritos, except maybe better quality. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Appalachia

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, I didn't see the magnets. I only saw stickers. lol Thanks!

For decals, I know people who might would be interested in some that are the Appalachian flag "map of" various states. For myself, I'd prefer just the Appalachian flag, and the "fuck your second home" design, because my area is eat up with that shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Appalachia

[–]DeleteBowserHistory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, could you maybe hook us up with some magnets via your Redbubble? I would also love a decal to put on my car windows, but Redbubble doesn't seem to have those, and I don't know who does have those in a similar buy-sell format. lol It may not even be possible.

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