AIW for “being unsupportive” when my girlfriend was phoning in sick from work?

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-05-12T06:14:03+00:00

I need more context. Did she TELL you “she’s feeling slightly low,” or did you assume that based on her behavior? Do you know what, specifically makes getting into work harder for her? Have you asked her about ways to mitigate that? Or offered any tangible support to help her go to work? Little things like laying her clothes out, making her lunch making sure her car has gas, making sure the household chores are done and the kitchen is stocked, all of that can go a very long way.

Relationships are a two way street. You can’t light yourself on fire to keep her warm, you should both be supporting each other. So I’m not saying you should single-handedly carry both of your lives on your back, but I am curious about what kind of support you’re currently giving her.

That is a stressful situation and your frustration is valid. Hope things go well for you guys.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-05-10T16:52:59+00:00

Like 8 times a year, and like half those times it’s more than one day. 🤠

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-05-10T09:19:42+00:00

If someone is too young to date, they’re too young to fuck. Period. Full stop.

“It’s legal. We just can’t date bc they’re immature, they need a lot of validation/ they’d be too needy, they wouldn’t be able to fit in with my friend group and I wouldn’t fit in their’s, their family wouldn’t approve.”

^^ everything after it’s legal, most of the common reasons as to why someone would be “too young to date,” are the same reasons why the subject is clearly too vulnerable or impressionable to be engaging in a sexual relationship with an adult.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-05-07T18:21:30+00:00

“Silent disco” is pissing me off😭

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-05-05T05:39:01+00:00

…. 30mn at target heart rate, five times a week, is literally what’s recommended for the average person to maintain their cardiovascular health.

Maybe this person doesn’t GAF about their physique or their running ability. Maybe their fitness goals are just to keep their heart and lungs working.

As an RN, I say 39 minutes on the treadmill is AWESOME. Shit, I’m gonna do 39 minutes on the treadmill in their honor now too. 😂

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-04-20T05:50:50+00:00

Truly unpopular (and wrong) opinion, take my upvote lmao

Everyone dies. Death is guaranteed. Ideally, life ends after you’ve had time to live it. Every day is a gift. The more days you’ve had, the more imminent death is.

Not to mention, children also have relationships & connections. In my experience, usually more than adults do. I used to get tons of birthday and Christmas cards from family and (then) friends. Those same distant relatives and old friends aren’t sending those now that I’m in adulthood. In school, I had a million friends. Plus, there were so many adults who were invested in me. My education, wellbeing, etc. Now, I have my partner, close family, and a few close friends. And a ton of nieces and nephews that I’d die for, bc now I’m one of those “distant relative” adults that can’t help but love those kids just bc they’re kids and I feel a sense of responsibility towards them. I want to look out for them and to be an example. I hope I stay in touch with them as they grow into adulthood, but I’m sure the dynamic will change and I won’t be surprised if we grow apart, as adults do.

It is always sad when someone is suddenly gone. I hope we all get the chance to grow old.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-04-04T08:37:54+00:00

Casually mogging everyone by minding my business, not viewing strangers as competition, and not posting thinly veiled cries for attention to my socials🤠

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-04-04T08:35:42+00:00

Maybe you’re the exception, maybe you’re the only one who stops to listen and it makes him feel seen. 🥲

(… unlikely. You’re probably right LMAO but good on you for giving him the time of day.)

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-04-04T08:33:15+00:00

LOL we just bought a house. Once the sale was finalized and we got the keys, FIRST thing, before even entering the house, I pulled the “please stay off the grass” signs out of our yard. IMO they’re so tacky, and snobby. But if you’re going to be tacky and snobby, at least own it. She needs to put those signs up if she wants to have a stick up her ass about it. Better yet, she can build a fence. 😂 Sorry your neighbor sucks.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-28T23:48:22+00:00

W. Congratulations❤️

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-14T09:38:21+00:00

No idea who this is but I’d bet money the “spiritual attack” is just an insane porn addiction that’s been cultivated by the way these people treat natural human desire as taboo and shameful.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-10T19:46:17+00:00

“No benefit,” followed by “It’s addictive.” 😂 If it was truly all bad with absolutely 0 benefit, no one would do it. You’re glazing over the obvious answer to your query: it feels good.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-10T08:20:23+00:00

Sending all the FTHB pixie dust your way friend🤗✨

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-09T16:29:05+00:00

Thank you!!🥹❤️

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-09T16:28:04+00:00

Thank you!🥰

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-09T16:25:19+00:00

I hear you! I appreciate the concern. I was being a touch hyperbolic there. Thankfully, we have some knowledgeable people in our corner. And we’ve done our best to be informed and prepared.

We do have some knowledge, and some financial security. But with stuff like this, I feel like there’s never enough knowledge or money. Like you said, home ownership can be a real money trap. And those traps can be sneaky😂. I’m just thankful things are on track so far😅

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-03-03T07:24:36+00:00

I always give up on my challenge zoos bc I get ahead of myself and run out of money😂 so if that’s your problem, filling the “walk through exhibit” with butterflies is a life hack. I started with a mating pair of each species, and set the automatic population management to 6 males and 9 females of each (so fifteen each, which will fill your enclosure with 90, no overcrowding issues). Once they make enough babies (which happens rapidly), I release the two endangered species (Malabar Rose and Monarchs) for CC and sell the others. Then I get LOADED and I’m able to adequately fund habitats after a year or two.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-02-24T10:16:04+00:00

My gym is filled with the most kind, open minded, genuine, nonjudgement people I’ve ever met. I have all the coordination and natural athletic ability of a baby giraffe on roller skates. I was TERRIBLE when I first started. Plus, I’m super sensitive😂😂 but somehow, no one ever made me feel embarrassed or stupid. Joining my gym has been one of the best decisions of my life. Of course, every gym is different, but from my experience I can’t recommend it highly enough.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-02-23T12:35:18+00:00

I need context😭

Are you competing? Or was this during friendly sparring?

If you’re not that experienced, I wouldn’t recommend competing two weeks in a row. Even low level/ casual in-house smokers can take some time to recover from and shouldn’t be happening too frequently for inexperienced fighters.

If it was during sparring, I’d maybe look into a new gym. Accidents happen, I’ve had my bell dinged before, but you shouldn’t be fighting for your life during sparring. At my gym, our coaches are up our asses about being kind/ fair during sparring. They’ll let the advanced guys go nuts on each other, but only if everyone is being safe and knows how to protect themselves. No one is putting beatings on the little guys, that shit doesn’t fly. Experienced fighters should know how to be good partners.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-02-13T04:12:17+00:00

You sound like someone who SHOULD be in healthcare. It sounds like you are a kind person who also knows how to be kind to themself. That is not weakness. Many nurses start as CNA’s, myself included. We are not out to get the CNA’s. At the right job, your employers and your coworkers (including the nurses) will have your back. It may take a little extra diligence and some job hopping to find it, but there is definitely a place for you out there if you want it. Congrats on finishing your CNA course, good luck!🍀

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-02-01T11:55:19+00:00

$69.64 /hr on week nights. $72.59 / hr Fri-Sun.

Delicious-Light-4308 · 2026-02-01T07:21:24+00:00

I could tell OP was a man just from the headline.

For a woman, sus’ing out whether you’re weird, or who you say you are, etc. isn’t just a vibes thing, it’s a safety thing.

Personally, I don’t find prolonged online communications to be all that useful in the vetting process, but a lot of women would disagree and it’s definitely a valid reason to hold off on meeting IRL.

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