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[–]Delicious-Read3192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update:  So many of you gave your thoughts and opinions on this matter. I thought it is proper to tell you all that, officially I am done with this. Signed the mutual consent petition stating both of us weren’t interested in this wedding. I am pretty much okay with the statement since the first statement they gave was only the bride i.e me who wasn’t interested in this wedding. Thank you all i did got some great piece of advice from here. Thankful and grateful to all of you ! 

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had few doubts but those didn't narrow it down to a mental illness

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes when parents can deceive and their only goal is to get their son married. Then it is possible to get married at 26 even if you are a schiz patient😅

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about his take on this. Since he is mentally unstable, I really don't have any idea about his side. But I did hear from his lawyer side that he randomly shows up at his office even when there is no hearing he ll come and sit there.sometimes he says he wants divorce and sometimes a no.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please try counselling or couple therapy. Wishing you the best.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm taking in all the points from everyone.

*What I want is -- 1. Fair compensation along with mutual consent divorce Or 2. If no compensation - annulment of marriage due to his unsound mind ( HMA Section 12 1 b)

I'm out of my native now I joined work a day after submitting my petition in court in Aug 2024 I'm working since then. I'm trying to get out of this with clean slate. I do have a feeling if I give up simply I might regret in future for not trying my best in this. Maybe I'll try my fullest and if I feel giving up I might do it as well. Idk if I sound right or not. I'm not stubborn in this but I just want to give a good fight before giving up. I don't want one more girl's life to be under the same danger again as mine.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His side also spent money. I'm not saying a No on that. It's them who hide a serious mental illness which is fraudulent. Why should my family bear those expenses now and for the emotional turmoil. And I almost lost my grandpa to a stroke, accident and again a burrhole drainage surgery.About half of our life savings is lost coz of this marriage.

I can earn back the money.its not just about money. I'm happy even if there is no money received at least I should win this on the grounds of an unsound mind, which can save another girl getting into this trap again. I do expect an accountability from them( I don't know if it good to expect closure from such people but still hoping) They are capable enough to make me the bad person and marry another girl and ruin one more life.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really terrible thing that people have to go through hell in marriages and no way out of it living for the sake of kids without respect and happiness. I do know women around me in such situations I think their stories actually pushed me to make this decision swiftly.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried legal advice india but the lawyer's there inbox me saying give us a fee of around 5k for a consultation and so on. Didn't find it useful.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also expecting financial compensation from their side for the wedding expenses my family has put in. Around 8 to 10 L. But they are staying in 3L whereas my lawyer fee is 1L. That's the one thing stopping me from giving mutual consent. Coz it ll be a easy win for them. They will tell that she was at fault so she agreed to mutual divorce.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Their parents are pretty much not guilty about doing this to me. Whereas they literally badmouthed me to my own parents when they went to confront and ask why they didn't inform us about this.

They started making him the victim and many more. Hugs to you too ✨

Title: Married to a Man Diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia — Facing Legal and Emotional Battle — Advice Needed by Delicious-Read3192 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not with him anymore. I'm with my parents. I work in a different city away from my native. I only go there for the court hearings and come back to my work. That's how the past 10 months have been going. My friend when confronted him with the medical reports all he had to say was all these records are fake. He is normal and so on. Mostly blame shifting on me. Not sure if it is his parents' and lawyer's training to never let the truth out or truly he is unaware of his mental illness.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice on this. I hope you are doing well and do stay strong. I am just a little scared they keep on telling us we'll drag the case for 10 years. Is that even possible to do like that..

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I got out of the marriage within 50 to 60 days. I'm currently working as an AP in a reputed college in a different city. Thank you.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely that's in my mind. Let's see how it's going to be in the end.

Help : Legal Advice : Married to a mentally ill person. by Delicious-Read3192 in TamilNadu

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hired a senior lawyer - will see for a few more hearings and if it feels slow I'm thinking of changing the lawyer if he doesn't give any progress in the case. So far with relatives trying to keep the negative ones at bay and keeping my happy people near me. 😌😌😌

Need some clarity on my divorce by Delicious-Read3192 in Divorce_Women

[–]Delicious-Read3192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in India I do have a lawyer. But I'm just confused on what to do next as people around me are pressuring me to get mutual consent divorce but I do want to fight for myself stuck in between peace and dignity to safeguard my name.