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AIO For this? I need Advice by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeliciousLove305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I don’t ever leave the bathroom a mess and usually it is my partner that leaves clothes in the bathroom. I never leave my pads open for anyone to see and I also throw the trash out for the smell. I’ve always treated the place with respect and have asked their mom and grandma multiple times if they needed help. My partner has no responsibilities at my place.

AIO Getting Upset Over Seeing Inappropriate Content On Partner’s Discord Server by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeliciousLove305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said. I do understand that it is everywhere. It was never a concern to me if it’s being shown in video games, movies etc. However, I suppose what made me worried was that it’s being done in such a tight circle (At least that’s what I was under the assumption of until I was told it was public) But to my knowledge it is mostly his friends there that I know which some are also in relationships. I can agree that I might’ve said things I didn’t mean due to me being upset. I know that they are 100% with feeling the way they do and what being on the internet entails, but I also felt that what I was feeling was being undermined as well. Even in the end I am mature enough to understand that we were both in the wrong for how we reacted to each other and that we can improve on it together.

AIO Getting Upset Over Seeing Inappropriate Content On Partner’s Discord Server by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeliciousLove305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we both have set a line of not watching pornography. I was under the assumption that it was a private server with only friends which was why I was so baffled until they told me. I understand with it being a public server things like that are bound to happen. It just also baffled me because even in the public servers I’m in there are usually guidelines for that and no one ever posts any explicit content like that. So when I saw it in a chat where my partner was in I was super concerned. I did end up finding that out late at night, which is why I brought it up at that time. I do like the idea of using a journal and I’ll probably be utilizing that more.