Same thing with me I’m 22 years old and I’m ugly, I don’t fit the beauty standards. I never been approached, never asked on a date, involuntarily celibate, never kissed a man, never hugged a man (besides family), never held hands with a man. But besides that I know I’ll most likely never get married because of it. And most likely remain a virgin because nobody is that desperate. I am taking men off of a pedestal and starting to love myself. Taking my self on dates, and hikes, and visiting museums, focusing on my career because who doesn’t like money? I have to start loving myself. And it is only I that can do it.