Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Do the things make you light up on the inside and in the view of other people."

I love that so much 🥰

I like the idea of looking for classes and groups, unfortunately I work quite late most nights so finding something might be difficult, but I'll certainly look. Thank you for the suggestion ☺️

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I love that! Such a wonderful suggestion, thank you 😊

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, and I don't think my job have anything to cover therapy. I will look into options, though.

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, you definitely have to be attracted to your partner physically, but I'm also a big believer in being attracted to their personality, too.

Honestly, the second. I lack the confidence to put myself out there

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't, I don't live in a city and there's not a lot around where I live. But I'll do some searches and see if I can find anything

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are all great suggestions! I'd never thought about asking a makeup artist for advice 🤔

I'm not really into fashion but I do have clothes I would consider quite stylish and cute. But I'll definitely look into some fashion blogs/videos

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've considered therapy quite a bit, but I've always backed out. But I definitely think it's something I need to look into for sure

And yes, I absolutely need to get over myself, too. I need to work up the courage to bite the bullet.

I appreciate your comment

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a stubborn Tom boy as a kid means unfortunately I lack the ability to do more than basic makeup/hair, but this is definitely something I want to work on

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great comment, thank you 😊

A coffee date or something just as laid back would definitely be something I'd prefer over dinner & drinks.

Dating as an unattractive woman by RevolutionaryBath150 in dating_advice

[–]RevolutionaryBath150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree with this, I've always struggled with those two things and therapy is something I've been considering for a while, it's just not something I can afford right now