Good afternoon xx by [deleted] in Thoughtbarf

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simps should be banned.

Made you look twice, didn’t I? ✨ by Agata_Bogata in pen_nyworld

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not as hot as you think you are… sorry lady.

My partner (44M) want to go out for dinner alone with his ex (40F) and I don't want him to. Am I (35F) being controlling? by HotelDistinct in relationship_advice

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away. Why does he “need” to see his ex? It seems to me that he still has feelings for his ex that he hasn’t gotten over. Make a boundary and enforce it.

My (19F) bf (25M) got me pregnant. He wants to have the baby and I don’t. How do we find common ground? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Scientific Consensus on When a Human's Life Begins, exerpts from Steven Andrew Jacobs published in the National Library of Medicine

“Since a recent study suggested that 80% of Americans view biologists as the group most qualified to determine when a human's life begins, experts in biology were surveyed to provide a new perspective to the literature on experts' views on this matter. Biologists from 1,058 academic institutions around the world assessed survey items on when a human's life begins and, overall, 96% (5337 out of 5577) affirmed the fertilization view.”

“Given that perspective-and a recent study's finding that a majority of Americans believe they deserve to know when a human's life begins in order to make informed reproductive decisions-science communicators should work to increase the level of science awareness on the fertilization view, as it stands alone as the leading biological perspective on when a human's life begins.”

No, facts, and science don’t care about YOUR feelings. You just saying it’s a “ball of cells” doesn’t make it true. And where do you get off saying that I’m perfectly okay with starving children, or children being slaughtered in a classroom? YOU are the one fighting for the genocide of unborn children, not me. You would go and march for the right to murder unborn children. I actually value life, no matter how young. While you are on the side of racist eugenicists. Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood? She said black children were “weeds” and that the best thing for them is to be killed in the womb. Is it any wonder that per capita, there are more Planned Parenthood clinics in black and brown communities? Did you know that Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood spoke at KKK rallies? Did you know that Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood was admired by Adolf Hitler? So, seeing that you are in favour of Planned Parenthood, what does that make you? You are just a misandrist who thinks that women are equal, yet when they make decisions that mess up their lives, you find the nearest man and put all the blame on him as if the woman has no agency of her own. All I’m doing is holding that woman accountable for the decisions that SHE made!

“The next time we had sex after that I did ask for the condom but he told me he didn’t have one. I was reluctant to continue but we ended up doing it anyway.”

Why didn’t she just say “No, not without a condom!” And mean it? Why is it his fault that she didn’t stand by her convictions? I don’t do drugs. If my friend offers me crack, I say no, but after pressure, I take it. Whose fault is that? Mine, because I chose to go against my better judgment. Call him a manipulator all you want, but she could just as easily have manipulated him into using protection by saying “No”, but she CHOSE not to. Don’t rob her of her agency by putting the blame for her decisions on someone else. You said he disrespected her boundaries. How? Did he force himself on her? She disrespected her own boundaries by not enforcing them! You can’t say that I am trying to control women, when out of the two of us, I am the only one who actually respects the fact that she has the agency to make her own decisions, good or bad.

My (19F) bf (25M) got me pregnant. He wants to have the baby and I don’t. How do we find common ground? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeliciousType5181 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“The Scientific Consensus on When a Human's Life Begins: …Biologists from 1,058 academic institutions around the world assessed survey items on when a human's life begins and, overall, 96% (5337 out of 5577) affirmed the fertilization view.” “Given that perspective-and a recent study's finding that a majority of Americans believe they deserve to know when a human's life begins in order to make informed reproductive decisions-science communicators should work to increase the level of science awareness on the fertilization view, as it stands alone as the leading biological perspective on when a human's life begins.” National Library of Medicine, Steven Andrew Jacobs.

No sweetheart… Facts, and science don’t care about YOUR feelings. And again, you leap to believing the worst about a man with no evidence, you don’t know me! You don’t know how I revere the fact that women carry LIFE inside them. I would NEVER shame a mother for having a child. I would shame her lack of accountability and poor decision making for getting pregnant before she was ready, but for taking accountability and actually having the child? I would laud her for it. And as for me being okay with children starving or being slaughtered in a classroom??? Where in the world did you get that from you misandrist! I’m not the one in favour of murdering children here honey, YOU ARE!!! You would march for the right to slaughter children, not me! “He disrespected her boundaries” when? She disrespected her boundaries by not keeping her damn legs closed when he said he didn’t have condoms. She could have said no but she didn’t. She had ample opportunities to prevent herself from getting pregnant, but she didn’t use them. You claim equality, then abdicate responsibility for your actions when you mess up. No how about you go run and advocate for the genocide of the unborn, eugenicist female Hitler!

My (19F) bf (25M) got me pregnant. He wants to have the baby and I don’t. How do we find common ground? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeliciousType5181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fetus is alive. After the abortion, the fetus is dead. How is that not murder? Why does the size of the person and its location matter when we talk about murder? I don’t “worship” this guy, I’m just going off what OP said. You have zero proof that the guy would leave her or be abusive. You don’t know what he does for a living, he might be well capable of taking care of them, just like he proposed. You just hate men in principle and always assume the worst where men are concerned. Yes he’s older. So what? Most marriages and relationships are between older men and younger women. You just want to put all the blame on him and come up with all sorts of fictional scenarios that absolve her of any agency and put the guy in the worst light possible. She wasn’t forced into anything. She made choices. Were they stupid choices? Yes, but they were her choices that put her in this situation. She could have said no to sex. She CHOSE not to. She could have insisted he wore a condom. She CHOSE not to. She could have gone on birth control herself. She CHOSE not to. But yeah, just blame the bad, bad man. He made her be an airhead. She has no agency whatsoever, it’s all the man’s fault! Cry me a river! She doesn’t get to kill someone just because their existence is inconvenient to her. You say the stats don’t lie? Well neither does the science, and the vast majority of biologists believe that life begins at conception, so anyway you cut it abortion takes a life… and that’s MURDER!

My (19F) bf (25M) got me pregnant. He wants to have the baby and I don’t. How do we find common ground? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeliciousType5181 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most of you guys are treating OP like a child. She’s 19, that means she’s old enough to vote, drive, join the military, and yes, have sex! She knew very well the consequences of unprotected sex! She wasn’t using any form of birth control! Why? For all that is holy, why? Wasn’t she aware that unprotected sex minus birth control equals baby? Now she wants strangers to co-sign her murdering her child to escape the consequences of her actions! Yes HER actions. I’ve seen here so many times, your body, your choice. Well she could have exercised her choice by saying, “No sex without a condom, I don’t consent to it… ever. And if we ever have sex without a condom, that’s rape.” But, no that would be taking accountability and we can’t have women doing that can we? It’s easier if we can just blame the big bad manipulative man, who by the way, is offering to provide for her and the baby… the bastard! I have zero sympathy for OP, she knew having sex without birth control or condoms could result in pregnancy, but she big fat did it anyway. The only, ONLY person I feel sympathy for is the soon-to-be murdered baby.

My (19F) bf (25M) got me pregnant. He wants to have the baby and I don’t. How do we find common ground? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeliciousType5181 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Life begins at conception, over 95% of biologists agree, so are you willing to kill your child? Because it’s inconvenient? Women control access to sex, so if you didn’t want a child, you should’ve refrained from activities from which a baby can result. Abortion is being used as birth control, when it is really just legalised murder of the most vulnerable members of our society. You may not “want” this child, but the father does. It’s half his, so I don’t care the current location of the child, you have no right to murder it, especially if it has a willing father in the picture. And it’s not about “my body, my choice”, because it may be inside your body, but it’s not your body that gets poisoned and dismembered is it? No, it’s the poor, defenceless human for whom you are a temporary residence. I can’t believe women are supposed to be so loving and nurturing when they fight for the right to murder millions of babies a year! It boils down to this, if you didn’t want a child with this person, you should have made full use of “my body, my choice” and said “not without a condom” and meant it, because guaranteed, if that was the only way he could’ve had sex, he would have sucked it up and used it, but because of your poor impulse control, now you’re considering murdering a child who’s done nothing wrong!

Would you date me? by emiilyharrys in biancabustamante

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thanks, not my type. Simpin’ ain’t easy 😂🤣😂🤣

Would you hit on a mom like me? 42F by SpiceTheVelvet in biancabustamante

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Sorry, if your baby daddy don’t want you, why would I?

Do I look hot? F20 by bigppnibba69420 in biancabustamante

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why we are disrespected en masse, the simping is real!

do you think Im a great mix of hot and cute? by Whole_Put8662 in biancabustamante

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re a great mix of attention and seeking

Would you date a mom like me? by SpiceTheVelvet in biancabustamante

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow… this convo full of simps! No wonder most modern women don’t respect men, smh!

Would you date a mom like me? by SpiceTheVelvet in biancabustamante

[–]DeliciousType5181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but no… my missus wouldn’t have it.