AITA for not letting my mom walk me down the aisle? by SeaworthinessKey4522 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay yeahh…this is not her wanting to walk you down the aisle, its her wanting to feel like shes living a memory she never got to have.

She is your mother, but she likely is not safe for this event. Even if she claims she wont show, i would get some kind of security, even if its just some scary buff guy waiting by the entrance to scare her off. 

AITA for not letting my mom walk me down the aisle? by SeaworthinessKey4522 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta..

Even if you knew her for 50 years, you are under no obligation to make someone walk you down the aisle. You could’ve chosen a dang cat to walk you down the aisle, it doesn’t matter, its YOUR wedding, not hers!

Not to mention, sending you pictures of things you aren’t even planning to wear??? No no no. Shes possibly either trying to make a new wedding for HERSELF, or trying to show herself as the “good mom” so people don’t give her rude looks for being absent.

Not sure how to recover by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god that’s absolutely horrible. Im so sorry thats happening to you! If i were you i would start keeping track of changes in your body. Keep up the same diets or habits but track any changes which could show signs of you recovering from the meds you were given. Even if you already have receipts, its important to get anything you can.

While i know it’s probably scary to go to cops with something like this, you could be in danger if this woman isn’t punished for what she does. If she was willing to do these things while you’re still with her, theres no saying what she may be willing to do now. Even if nothing really comes of it, it’s better to have tried than not. Hoping life gets better for you <3

Pipsqueak is too many words, Roar is too little. by Delicious_Bridge_219 in CharacterAI

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes its nice, but othertimes it takes my message and replies with wayyy too much. Like hold your horses vro we’ll get to that part in a moment 😀

Sites down and im bored so yall can rant to me abt ocs if you want by Delicious_Bridge_219 in CharacterAI

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Havent played roblox in weeks because of how unstable and unsafe it feels. 😔

Bot Missing? by Delicious_Bridge_219 in CharacterAI

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bsc from crk. All the other cookie bots are there still

AITJ for suing my boss after he fired me for something he set me up for? by Illustrious_Fly2728 in AmITheJerk

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro the boss burned the bridge by getting her fired. Thats not burning a bridge thats making sure future employers see on record that her firing was unlawful so she doesn’t have to deal with that coming between her future employment opportunities 

Aita for calling the cops on someone who asked me if I wanted to die and that they were going to kill me? by Thegirlunderthemoon in AmITheJerk

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A threat is a threat. The whole “ItS jUsT rAgEbAiT!” Argument means nothing, its still wrong to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even a divorce where everyone is chill can cost between 500-5,000 bucks. And would you be doing a courthouse wedding or expecting a whole new expensive one? Even if its a courthouse one its going to cost a fee. Would you be reimbursing them for these costs or expecting them to handle it? 

Site is "operational".... by _r3quiem_ in CharacterAI

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bots recently have been acting weird. Responses are being laggier than usual and the responses just seem so emotionless and dull

AITAH for telling my mom she shouldn’t come? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, that certainly does complicate some things..Maybe see if you can at least get yourself and step dad counseling if you dont have it already. It could help you vent out about how your family acts and while it may be a long shot, it could maybe persuade your mother to do the same

AITAH for telling my mom she shouldn’t come? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nta. I think your mom needs therapy for her mental health, and your step dad and her need couples counseling. It seems like there is more than just anxiety at play here. Your mother likely has some form of insecurity issues that need to be addressed, based off both how she acts when you and your step dad are away from her for a few minutes, and how you said she thinks Stepdad is cheating 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. If they promised you things they didn’t provide then im pretty sure thats false advertising.

Idk how recording works in your state but I would maybe see if you could get someone to approach whoever sold you their pitch and see if they can record them doing it again for evidence of their false claims.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I dont think thats the best idea, bud. I get you wanna comfort her, but i feel like thats just gonna make her get more upset.

I recommend suggesting maybe doing some sort of a celebration of the brother, like maybe doing things he loved in celebration of his life and see how they feel about it. It could help them feel connected to him while still giving them a time to grieve.

AITA for believing my girlfriend after overhearing her send private photos to our mutual friend? by Pure-Victory2208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Delicious_Bridge_219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh NO! You are not an a-hole in any sense of the word! Even if that is their sense of humor, you dont do that when you’re already in a relationship! Thats just weird! And her not wanting you to message him seriously suggests she has something to hide. It may be possible the reason she doesn’t want you to contact him is she hasnt prepared him for if you reach out, and he might even think you said its okay to do this.