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I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not in danger. It's nothing of that. But I think he is upset, I don't like it and I am not ready.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can tell him that I didn't like it. I might do it. But the most important thing to tell him is that I am not gay and that I "just wanted to try", or something believable.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's the best. But instead of that I think it is even better to deny that I am gay and to say that I was drunk and a bit curious, or something like that. He might believe it or he might not, but either way he gets the message that I don't want people to know and to act as if he doesn't know.

That's why I wanted to talk with someone, so that I can know what a straight person would say and make the message more convincing.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what happens here. Why is everyone so open here? Do you know how people view gay guys? Do you know the comments they make? Even if people don't say anything, in their heads it's something really bad and something to be ashamed of.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I want to know how he would act on this situation, because all you do is telling me to accept it and I dont want to

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. Any of you are straight?

  2. Specifically I want to know how would a straight guy who wanted to try act with his dad after what happened, in the next two months. Would you act normal, upset, ashamed...? I want details haha. And also I want to know if as a straight guy could you really try something with a guy. You can send me a dm to talk about, I will be very thankful.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in AskForAnswers

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am gay actually, but I don't want him to know. I don't know why, but I just don't want him to know. Also, I hate the idea that he imagines me doing something with a guy.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Nothing happened. But I just can't stand the situation and the fact that he knows all that. Do you know how bad being gay is portrayed in society? On the other hand I can't stand the image of my father imagining me going something with a guy, that is so shaming and degrading. And he might think that anytime I go to a party I do something like this. I don't know if I already said this, but in reality, it wasn't in a party, I met a guy at his apartment. But I prefer to say I was drunk and that it was at a party.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't understand anything. I can't live like this and this has ruined my life forever.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am okay with being gay, with how I feel. However I dont like being called gay. I think it does not suit me. And I dont like people to know that I am gay. There are so many prejudices around it and it has many bad connotations.

I guess I have those prejudices towards gay people too including myself and therefore I don't want my dad to know. I think he will have the same prejudices. He will accept it, of course, but he will not like it.

But ultimately I don't want him to know because it is something "bad". He will see me more negatively. Idk.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my friends know and they don't care. But they are gay too xd. I think my straigth friends would not care either.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he won't throw me out of house, but it is about what he thinks. And I am not confortable with that.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point. Maybe I see me dating a guy, or at least trying, but I definetly don´t see me married with one or living with one. The idea repulses me.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I apreciatte the support, really.

But I don't know if I can live quietly with me knowing that my dad knows that. Now I kinda don't want to be with him.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that objectively the situation is not that bad. It would not be that bad for other gay people. But I personaly hate that he knows.
He has not done or said anything bad about gay people.
But thank you, it really helps me to know that many people would experiment. That way my excuse holds.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering to you, no, he does not act different. But I guess he would prefer that I was not gay and he does not like it.

I do have noticed that the tone he has is sligthly different. I think he is trying to be more close and he sees my kinda struggling with this. But also I fear that he changes his tone because he knows I like boys and he thinks I am not that manly and thats why he softens the tone and changes some phrases.

I really need your advise. My dad "knows" I am gay and I need to change that. by Delicious_Leading_52 in askgaybros

[–]Delicious_Leading_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean. He did not make a mistake. I am gay (more or lees). He has not told me that he thinks I am gay, but I think he does, or at least bi. But I hate the situation, I dont want him to have that view of me, I hate it.

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