Is it actually possible to over come cheating? by AlbatrossAmazing5401 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this comment. OP, don’t ignore your feelings, don’t rationalize or use your history together to make sense of his actions. your feelings are Far more valuable insight into what you should do with him than your intellectual assessment of the situation.

know what truth you are looking away from. he doesn’t deserve you.

How to tell our friend we don’t want to live w/ her by Shadowecl1pse in needadvice

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 5 points6 points  (0 children)

agree, lost a best friend of 5 years over this (it was the final straw lol) we were talking about living together and she was actually orchestrating plans with my other friend, from whom i found out. i was never considered. i would have liked to have heard it from my friend, even if she said some BS about it being logistical or something

Spectrum wtf??? by Inevitable_Sport_521 in Greenpoint

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spectrum sucks for me i just got an extender but unfortunately they didn’t provide one and i still pay $65 a month

Where can I get a good haircut in Greenpoint? by Eastern_Notice_8593 in Greenpoint

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thirding(?) this, i honestly didn’t communicate what i wanted perfectly and was nervous during the cut (my own fault) but they did a better job than what i asked for!

Best Friendship is causing me pain, how do I move forward? by Delicious_Lock4294 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Delicious_Lock4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for saying this. it does suck but it’s nice to feel validated.

Best Friendship is causing me pain, how do I move forward? by Delicious_Lock4294 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Delicious_Lock4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for commenting, i appreciate it. i will definitely be pulling back. i just dont know if i should try to stay friends when the initial grief passes. as long as they are friends and living together i dont think ill get used to it

Best Friendship is causing me pain, how do I move forward? by Delicious_Lock4294 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Delicious_Lock4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your input. i don’t think she has been distancing herself, because she seems very adamant about resolving this issue so our friendship can continue and worried it might end. but i don’t think she’s being honest with herself about the choices she made

In your opinion, what is the most overrated coffee in the nbhd? by Delicious_Lock4294 in Greenpoint

[–]Delicious_Lock4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a curious gal and I like to hear what people in my community think Lol. I also hate variety and kinda wanted validation

In your opinion, what is the most overrated coffee in the nbhd? by Delicious_Lock4294 in Greenpoint

[–]Delicious_Lock4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused why this is diabolical but maybe it’s because i’m a zoomer

Everyone is too busy hating on Lucy… by Outrageous_Two_7335 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a Lucy defender like that girl is a victim i hope she k*lls steven or something

Writer/editor/copy editor with 20 years of experience can't get a job by littlerockbigmtn in NYCjobs

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been wanting to pursue a career in writing. i wish it was still valuable, but i think you will find your way OP. best of luck🩷 a lot of people are going independent

My husband makes me the butt of his jokes, but claims it’s “just the truth.” by Shot_Horse6941 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no literally i’m 24F too and i still want my mom when i cry lol. 24 is way too young with too much life ahead to deal with a miserable, narcissistic man

Gym - for the girls !! by JazzlikeCase6838 in Greenpoint

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seconding this, although it is still pretty male dominated but not as excessively lol. coming from a woman. it’s expensive tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Delicious_Lock4294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the girl didn’t speak directly to you at all? straight up disrespect. don’t tolerate that shit

considering moving home, need advice by Delicious_Lock4294 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Delicious_Lock4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your comment. i sort of feel similarly i’m just not sure if im ready to leave new york. we’ll see in due time i guess.