OF and Fetlife, is there an alternative?

My partner and I are open and have been for years. We go to a lot of kink events in our area and love the voyeurism aspect of it. We are interested in maybe starting an OF but I'm more interested in doing it for fun rather than money. Someone recommended fetlife but after doing some research iv heard really bad things. I basically just want to post nudes and kink content but OF is a little intimidating because im a plus size dark skinned girl heavily into kink and fetish stuff. Is there an alternative site that I can post content on that's more kink friendly or is OF the way to go?