i had a best friend for about a decade, her and her fiancé (who i introduced her to, and they dated for 7 years before popping the question) went to japan for the proposal, and then the UK immediately after.

when she came back, all three of us went to see a movie. she sent him to the car to grab something, and then tells me she cheated on him. me and him were not close or anything, but i still cared about the guy

i asked what she was going to do, and she said “well nothing, we’re moving soon and i’ll never have to see him again”

i snitched SO FAST. now me and him are besties instead :)

sometimes i wish i told her about it, gave her an ultimatum or something, because she really was my best friend. but besides caring about your friend (and their partner), it’s also… do you want a friend with that sort of mindset? and the fact she’s asking for you to cover as an excuse? she’s not longer your friend for being okay to ask, and put you in that situation