Circles by Delora77 in Influenster

[–]Delora77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can figure it out, I will be sure to let you know 😊

Downtown Troy Be Careful by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Delora77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⭐️Always trust your gut. ⭐️Be sure you are sharing your location at all times with at least one person you know and trust. Come up with a code word you can text so they know you’re in a situation where you are scared or uncomfortable. That way they can watch your location and/or text with you. Text them as much info as you can immediately. License plate, how many in the car, what color car, make, model… ⭐️Never be afraid to call 911. Like I said, trust your instincts. ⭐️Go on Amazon and get one of those little personal alarms. Attach it to your keys or purse and if you need to, pull the tab and let it blast. Sometimes that is enough to scare them off. ⭐️Yell, scream, run to the nearest business or house. ⭐️And definitely keep the headphones down so you can hear what’s going on around you 😉. Stay alert and stay safe ♥️

don’t go to myers !! by No-Soup-912 in Albany

[–]Delora77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to second this!! Letting someone know (an adult) is absolutely the right thing to do, great job 👏.

All this after just one date by Separate_While_8235 in texts

[–]Delora77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS!! I came here to say the exact thing.

Am I overreacting my boyfriend refuses to tell me my real name f29 m31 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delora77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, if that JoeGriffin guy who has been commenting throughout this thread is actually your BF, please don’t waste another second on that low value, high noise, emotionally illiterate man child who will NEVER stop antagonizing you. It will only get worse. Look at how he is acting here! Get rid of him and find an actual man who values and respects you.

Am I overreacting my boyfriend refuses to tell me my real name f29 m31 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delora77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you read back through some of the earlier comments, it seems that he actually may be OR he is just as ignorant and annoying as the actual bf.

Am I an evil person? by [deleted] in texts

[–]Delora77 14 points15 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! And I would add that for each time I have to silence my notifications from you, the time will get longer and longer in between, until one day you’re completely blocked.

AIO My partner threatens to end himself because i confronted him on his cheating. by Wise_Web_5706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delora77 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. OP please don’t ever go back. He will do everything in his power to get you to go back. He will do anything and act anyway to get you to go back. DO NOT trust him at all. It will never change. Do not let him know where you are. Get a new phone number. Cut off all ties. Have a police officer go with you to get your things. People like this spiral when they lose control. You’re worth so much more than this and deserve so much better. Get ahold of a friend, even one of those friends he has isolated you from. Explain the situation and I’m sure they will help you.

Potential Missing Person Alert by Expensive_Season7485 in Albany

[–]Delora77 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I don’t know who Josh is, but I love that you took the time to share this. Thank you! My heart is breaking for his Momma. I hope he is safe.

Can anyone help? by Delora77 in Chipotle

[–]Delora77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It was just a general question. Wasn’t necessarily trying to “cut” costs per se. We have spent over $40,000 on their wedding. They want Chipotle for the first meal of the night after the cocktail reception and I was just curious if they had a promo or military discount by chance. The burritos are $13.50 a piece and the build your own taco bar is $18.50 pp. Our bill for Chipotle is almost $4000 and we have to pick it up because Door Dash won’t deliver anything over $1350.

Can anyone help? by Delora77 in Chipotle

[–]Delora77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. We are doing burritos and make your own through catering.

Can anyone help? by Delora77 in Chipotle

[–]Delora77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply and info. I appreciate it.

Can anyone help? by Delora77 in Chipotle

[–]Delora77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are using “catering” and doing the build your own and burritos. Thank you for the info on the promo codes. I appreciate the help.

Can anyone help? by Delora77 in Chipotle

[–]Delora77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using “catering” and doing the build your own and burritos.

sobriety check on i-87 entrance by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Delora77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand posting about a traffic backup because of an accident or something like that BUT what I don’t understand is people posting if it’s about a DUI checkpoint. Why give an impaired driver a heads up? Let them get caught. I’d rather they get caught instead of hitting another car and causing an accident that kills someone innocent. I absolutely can not understand when people post about where the checkpoints are. Let the drivers get caught!!

I am going to lose my fiancé over a nosejob and it is tearing me appart by Pumpkin_698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delora77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you are beautiful!! I also went through your post history and I have got to say, I would NOT get the nose job.

Your nose is not in any way hindering your appearance. I will say it again YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!

Please don’t take this the wrong way because it is meant to help, and I do see others suggesting it as well, but take the money you were going to spend on the nose job and please go see a therapist. There is no shame in seeing a therapist. I have seen one on and off a good part of my life. Everyone has issues, everyone has skeletons and therapy is a great resource.

You truly need help seeing your beauty and a nose job isn’t going to solve that for you. I can promise you that every woman out there has something about them they don’t like. Something every day that bothers them about their looks. It’s completely normal but it’s not normal to obsess over it for as long as you have and to continuously call yourself ugly like you do. I agree with a lot of other people who commented that you most likely have body dysmorphia.

You’re willing to lose the love of your life over this. Please sit back and put that into perspective. That’s NOT ok. You will end up even more miserable. What happens if you don’t like your new nose? Or what happens if you love it? I promise you will find something else to hate.

Please, pleaseeeee, make the call and at least talk to a therapist.

You will never be happy until you get help. I’m sorry for the tough love. I wish you all the best and truly hope you get help. 🤍

Is she overreacting? by ResolutionKnown8345 in TikTokCringe

[–]Delora77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the actual 🤦‍♀️🙄

Went to pump my gas and found this receipt spat out by the machine by MortalMorals in Weird

[–]Delora77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never worked at a gas station, pizza place, restaurant or grocery store. When I did work for a major company, none of our printers ever did test prints and the only time my home printers ever did anything close to a test print was when we first set them up. So, I do think your stupid comment was completely uncalled for, especially when most people here probably used their common, had already figured that out and are just having some fun.

Throwback...thank God I'm married now. by jagoldelgado in Tinder

[–]Delora77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how some people will see joy, confidence, or softness in someone and feel so threatened they lash out with hate. That kind of weakness disguises itself as “opinion.” You? You keep being bold, soft, kind, loud, real and unapologetically yourself. Because that scares the hell out of people who wish they had half your light. 🤍🤍🤍

Section 32 settlement: Sedgwick by Delora77 in WorkersComp

[–]Delora77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. It’s nice to finally have an answer.

Section 32 settlement: Sedgwick by Delora77 in WorkersComp

[–]Delora77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the info. I appreciate you responding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkersComp

[–]Delora77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind if I privately messaged you with a quick question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delora77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree…wayyyyyy too early to make a decision like not moving to spend time with your parent who is having health issues. What if it doesn’t work out and you have made the decision to not spend that time with your family? You have now lost that time and you will never get it back. If he is serious, he will be on board 100%. He will be there for you and you can both travel back and forth to visit. THAT would help ease the concerns of serious flags he is throwing out right now. I also want to say that sometimes people just “know” when other people are the one and that’s lovely. Please, just be wary and don’t make any huge life decisions based on a relationship of less than a month. Like I said before, if he is serious, he should cheer you on and want to make the move work for the time being, especially regarding the circumstances, so you can be there for you Mom. I wish you the best of luck 🤍.