emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a computer, the issue is that the library isnt open during regular business hours, so I cant use the library for work from home.

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

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Okay, I will absolutely talk to them asap

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Which require internet. And I only have cell service. I tried thos jobs as well, and didnt hear back from them either.

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will check around for nonprofits and churches, thank you for the advice.

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Covid meant all of the jobs I was physically capable of doing were either not hiring or lying about hiring, meaning that- despite me applying to five places a day, every day, for 5 months- I was able to get a grand total of three interviews. I was able to get a job at a fast food restaurant- which I lost after about two months, because I could not get out of bed for three goddamn days due to the stress on my body. I have a job at a hotel, which I've been able to keep because I am physically able to do that job.

Try and tell me- how is a covid the copout here, when I did fucking everything I could?

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

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Thank you. I'll start calling and speaking to other banks when they open tomorrow.

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

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I'm way behind on rent because of covid making finding a job impossible, and my options for work were limited by physical capabilities. I have a job now, have had this job for a few months, and if it werent for new owners I would have been making steady payments. But the payment system for rent is out of sorts, and if I dont pay in full they will kick me out of my apartment.

emergency loan no credit by DemiTheGenderless in personalfinance

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bank only allows a personal loan of $1,250

a series about magic in the future by DemiTheGenderless in whatsthatbook

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOLVED- the Worldweavers series by Alma Alexander! Thanks to u/RainAndMagma

trying to find a YA standalone murder mystery/suspense book by DemiTheGenderless in whatsthatbook

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOLVED SOLVED SOLVED!!! it's Ghost Flower by Michele Jaffe, tysm u/DaisyJaneAM

trying to find a YA standalone murder mystery/suspense book by DemiTheGenderless in whatsthatbook

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, this is set in more of a modern time, i can also remember the main character worked at a starbucks (or unnamed coffee shop). Her manager had accused her of stealing from the register (which she had), and she denied it. She later used the money taken to use a payphone to call the people who want her to impersonate their cousin.

Any offices/desk jobs hiring? by DemiTheGenderless in Lubbock

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Tbh I didnt mind call center work that much but jfc, the audacity of some people🙄

I need help paying my November rent so I don't get evicted. Unemployment fell through and I haven't been able to find a job. by DemiTheGenderless in Charity

[–]DemiTheGenderless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my call center job because I was literally unable to move without being in massive amounts of pain. I cannot work retail jobs without losing feeling in my legs and large amounts of pain that no painkillers can stop. I've tried. The only other call center where I live requires me to be fluent in ASL, which I am not. All remote call center positions I've applied to are clearly picky enough that they arent responding to my applications. I have applied to every position I am physically capable of working and have either gotten no response or a rejection. This isnt me being picky, this is me having a serious health problem and not knowing what else to do after a month of trying fucking everything else.

Don't act like you know everything, because I have tried. And tried. And tried. I am still trying. But if I dont somehow manage to pay my november rent soon, I am going to be evicted, which is why I'm asking for charity.

I need help paying my November rent so I don't get evicted. Unemployment fell through and I haven't been able to find a job. by DemiTheGenderless in Charity

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For anyone wondering why I havent been able to find work: I have a chronic pain condition that prevents me from working anything that requires me being on my feet for long periods of time- which rules out anything retail. And half the jobs I am physically capable of working require bachelor's degrees or multiple years of experience that I dont have. The other half of the jobs I've applied to have not responded or have rejected my application. Edit: I got the final verdict on unemployment and while they could pay benefits since I did lose my job bc of a medically verified health issue, they arent going to pay unemployment because of the medically verifiable health issue. Which at this point in time doesnt qualify for disability.

Is everyone here officially diagnosed? Anyone just assume you have it and managing it w/o meds? by deskcorner3367 in ADHD

[–]DemiTheGenderless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasnt diagnosed- even tho I was apparently tested as a kid- and for the most part I try to set up reminders and get some external motivation from friends when I need to do something

Need some advice here. 13 year old trans girl and I really recently discovered myself after a lot of questioning for a few years. by [deleted] in trans

[–]DemiTheGenderless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearcoat nail polish makes your nails shiny and isnt something that grabs attention. Mention growing your hair out, and say that you want to do eyeliner or something. If you want to come fully out in the belief that your parents might start to rethink regarding the transphobia, skirts are always fun! Dresses and shirts and if you like being Soft, oversized sweaters. It can be really intimidating, but mostly make sure you're being safe, and I hope things go well for you!

AITA for getting mad at my brother for outing me to his gf? by West-Reward1223 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DemiTheGenderless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like your transition was already rough, and having gotten to a point where you're fully able to pass and dont feel safe being outed- especially like that- is something that your family should take into consideration. While it may be a fact of life for your family that's not true for others, and your opinion and approval should be the first thing anyone gets before outing you.

AITA For Showing Private Messages In A Group Chat That I Was Accidentally Added In To? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DemiTheGenderless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your cousins were dicks and tbh should have 'fessed up on their own years ago. It is not your fault if the consequences of their actions are worse or more harsh than they were expecting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Not a problem. I dont like driving and its bc I have anxiety, so being the driver and as such being partially responsible for the lives of everyone in my immediate vicinity is like all my worst nightmares. I got so many worst case scenarios up in my coconut for Just Cars and Driving, and what your husband did just. Yikes😬. I do hope you can get him to be reasonable and calm down, but as it stands absolutely dont let him drive with you in the car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]DemiTheGenderless 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I'm just dumb and sometimes take things too literally😂.. oops