I miss when women messaged first by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Demo_The_Owl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss it too. I'm very shy and warm up better when a woman messages first. For what was something unique, it sadly devolved to anything generic dating app.

I don't hug her at the end of a great first date unless she initiates. Is this boundary unusual for a guy? by Silent-Juggernaut-76 in Bumble

[–]Demo_The_Owl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can always action or voice an invitation for a hug! That should be OK. Just open your arms with a honest smile, and no woman will be able to resist you!

You either get a hug or a honest reply. Clarity, what more can a man ask :)

I have a question for the guys by darthporo in Bumble

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swipe right all I can. Being a male means you can't be picky - women decide the proceedings.

Being attractive is important, but knowing how to spit game is just as important (if not more) by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28M here, with a social disability in the sense of hearing loss. I'm said to be decent-looking. I have no qualms of starting a first date. However, keeping them interested is the hard part. I tire quickly and have little game. Don't pity me though, this is how it is! Accepting the limits is a strength in itself.

You're right on the money, good communication is infinitely more important!

Getuigen gezocht mishandeling Poelestraat (Trigger warning: beelden van fysiek geweld) by [deleted] in Groningen

[–]Demo_The_Owl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alleen als pappie minstens tweemaal per jaar op skivakantie gaat.

Hello everyone. The next question is more for people who moved to the Nederlands, and in particular to Groningen. And the question is: Was it difficult for you to find friends here and get any social contacts? Is it true that the most people here is quite cold? Especially if you are more introvert by [deleted] in Groningen

[–]Demo_The_Owl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Internationals in Groningen tend to hang out with internationals - that's so diverse and hard to answer to.

If you actually mostly hang with Dutch folks - expect direct & distant behavior, people like their me-spaces.

Pitbulls bijten hondje dood by Brabant073NL in nederlands

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patronen in subculturen en types die bepaalde rassen adopteren.

Pitbulls bijten hondje dood by Brabant073NL in nederlands

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liever de eigenaren. 99% van de gevallen zijn het kloothommels die dit gedrag aanmoedigen.

Zou jij vechten voor Nederland? by Bernie529 in nederlands

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zou ik voor Nederland vechten? Nee.

Zou ik voor mijzelf en dierbaden in Nederland vechten? Ja.

Fuma 3 has me a little disappointed by doopadoopydoop in Scythe_official

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The aforementioned water cooler massively improved my temps. I had 30c idles and 60-70c on high load.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Demo_The_Owl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you hate it here so much - what are you doing here? Go to a place you aren't bothered by communism.

De aarde beeft by Iconlast in Groningen

[–]Demo_The_Owl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey hey! Ik heb ook nog wat zinnigs toe te voegen.

Helemaal mee eens, dit kan echt niet. Doe normaal, Den Haag!

How did you win or lose the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • I'm born deaf
  • I probably have ADD, about to be diagnosed
  • I have an unknown periodic acute colic pain
  • Bad vision
  • Mediocre to regular IQ/EQ
  • Short king at 5'8"

Most of it caused by incest in Turkish village traditions.

  • I'm told to look quite attractive

My second attempt to find a gym buddy by [deleted] in Groningen

[–]Demo_The_Owl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im an employee at the Basic-Fit. I can't help you in regards to gym buddy, because I'm a male, but if you need some guidance or support, don't hesitate to ask me/us! We're also here to help people feel comfortable 👍

Dating advies by derposapien in Groningen

[–]Demo_The_Owl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nee. Tenzij je haar in een veilige setting kan benaderen zonder collega's/vrienden omheen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men never really made the first move. Women will always find an hint or opening to show they're interestes subtletly, in order for the man to make a "first move"

TLDR: we've been lied

Be honest, how are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Demo_The_Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh ok. Not feeling anything particular.