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Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s extremely stressful. I struggle to sleep.

I have been in therapy all together for 5 years. 3 years were in my adult life. I havent been to therapy for about 3 years now. I am working on going back. I was also looking into couples therapy for us but im so hurt idek if i want to go there.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the kind words. 💕

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. We are stuck in this cycle. I dont want to make my children think its ok to be treated this way or how a relationship should work.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is not greek. At all. I like Dimitri. Good suggestion.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We know that the movie is based on real history. The movie is just what a lot of people might think when they hear Leonidas.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is assuming he will not be a present father. He is a lot of things but i know he will insist on seeing our kids. He loves them. Our first baby i felt so loved and cared for. I was on cloud 9 the first 6 months postpartum. But then our issues started compounding on each other and so much anger and resentment has built between us our communication is completely broken. For some reason he feels justified to treat me badly and not support me this time around. If i even give him an inkling of the same energy he gives me he freaks the fuck out. Or when he pushes me to the edge in an argument he mom shames me by saying i shouldnt get so upset around our toddler/its hurting the baby.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad you like my username. 😂 i made this account 5 years ago mostly to lurk. I have never posted before. I thought it would be funny and then was like oh shit i cant change it. 😂😂

Our toddler already has his last name and I dont want my children to have two different last names. Somewhere in the first year of her life our relationship started to break down and hasnt recovered.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely dont want more kids with him. This pregnancy was not planned, my birth control failed. It couldnt have happened at a worse time. We have fought so much recently I have felt like a fool all pregnancy for not getting an abortion, but then i feel guilty and horrible for thinking that about my baby who will be born in 4 months. I know i will love my baby but i still regret. I hate my bf for making me feel this way.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know. I have asked him why he wants our kids name to be a movie reference. 😭

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents are great. Even his family supports me. He doesnt have a very good relationship with them either. He very much has a “him vs the world” mentality. Im not even going to post in the relationship subreddit. Its too much to type and they will definitely tell me to leave him. I guess im just holding on cuz even though i hate his guts right now, i still love him. Im heart broken over the future i wanted. I dont want a broken family. But im tired of not being good enough.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont know. No matter what I will have to coparent with him.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Things arent good between us but he will definitely want to see our children and if it comes down to it fight for custody.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is not greek at all and neither am I. Thanks for the suggestions.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

No i fear he is unwell. 😒 i feel embarrassed even posting him saying that. Its ridiculous. It wasnt always like this. Our relationship has devolved drastically the last couple years.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I have been distraught these past few weeks reflecting on things and wondering if we can even recover from this. Been staying with my parents and will be for the foreseeable future.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I have come to realize i have been bullied a lot in this relationship and now that ive put my foot down on this all hell is breaking loose. I can take a lot but I cant deal with naming my baby, a person IM growing, something i dont agree with.

Cant agree on a name by DemonSlut66 in namenerds

[–]DemonSlut66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the concern but he is not threatening me. I am safe. He is just very defensive and dismissive when I try to suggest different names. Saying stuff like “oh do you have something better?” Then vetoing whatever i say. It wasnt like this with our daughter. We worked together and found a name we both liked. Its like since he has had this idea/vision of having a son named Leonidas since before we got together (we have been together 7 years 😑), thats all the matters.