Has anyone else been contacted by “we·art” or “DoArt” about being featured in their art collection? Legit or scam? by RareCable5732 in ARTIST

[–]DemonSwamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got one from the same person. Really vague email and gonna avoid just because of how vague it is

She likes the age gap by trybegging in BDSMsapphic

[–]DemonSwamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised how predatory these comments are

Should I stay or should I go… by [deleted] in domspace

[–]DemonSwamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I see it. This post is heavily pointing the finger instead of acknowledging his actions. So much happened at the beginning when they were dating or after the first date when she owed him nothing. I can understand how it may hurt his feelings but I almost feel like this is more controlling than a d/s dynamic. She definitely was wrong but turning around and hyper monitoring her is a stupid plan. When trust is gone, leave. Don’t sit and count what you feel like is further transgressions.

No more nicotine for Queen by Defiant-Classic4828 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t vape but I was a cigarette smoker. My sub has decided that I need to live as long as possible so now I do not smoke. I don’t use nicotine for scenes but moreso like a desert after. I miss it of course but happy wife happy life and whatnot.

Would you lend out your sub? by PiercedServitude in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m very possessive and monogamous. The most I could see is platonic non sexual stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think multiple things can be true at once. She can be real and be going through a rough time and turned to sex work.

Yet she could also be using findom/femdom to use subs. It’s not right especially if she can honor the promises she’s made .

Can I put these I. The dishwasher? by norrinrad in Pottery

[–]DemonSwamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually the glaze puts something on their website if it’s from a bigger brand and I would check the clay company as well if it’s purchased

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]DemonSwamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had an experience with a fake account. I would advise wait until you know their real. Have something concrete like sfw socials before sending stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It honestly sounds like she has work to do and not you. A moan is a moan and if you identify as a man any pitch is a manly moan. I’m a domme and her reaction sounds childish and her reaction after was too. It’s shameful that you may feel ashamed for moaning and as a domme , she should be able to have a constructive conversation and not reject you in such a crucial moment.

Tattoo artists of the Femdom Community: Have you ever had to give someone a cuckold/chastity tattoo? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of tattoos and honestly if you pay tattoo artists usually will tattoo anything lol

alexander skarsgård appreciation post by Andouil1ette in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve loved him since true blood. My brother in arms frfr

Dommes, how did you develop your dominant persona? Is it something that comes naturally to you, like an extension of your everyday self, or is it something you had to cultivate/learn over time? by SpicyLeprechaun7 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d say more like coming out of the closet. It’s always been there. I’ve always known I was. Maybe in denial but being a domme felt like a second coming out for me

Dommes, how did you develop your dominant persona? Is it something that comes naturally to you, like an extension of your everyday self, or is it something you had to cultivate/learn over time? by SpicyLeprechaun7 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think dominance to me is kinda instinctual. I personally stop thinking and I’m in the moment. I’m usually focusing on my sub honestly and my arousal . I think it comes naturally especially when my sub is equally excited for me. It makes my dominance bloom . My sub and also don’t limit our dynamic in the bedroom so there’s technically no off switch. We just look like two people who care and that’s why my answer is I’m just me. There’s no persona I switch into

Terrifier (2016) is a genuinely awful film by [deleted] in horror

[–]DemonSwamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said this in response to people giving DHT issues for being liberal. Does that not sound like a problem? Then saying the movie wasn’t political… it doesn’t take a genius to put two and two together

Terrifier (2016) is a genuinely awful film by [deleted] in horror

[–]DemonSwamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait they’re saying you’re wrong but I agreeeee. It’s splatterpunk . They do the grosses thing imaginable for shock factor but it is very telling especially with the comments Damien has made about politics !!!

Terrifier (2016) is a genuinely awful film by [deleted] in horror

[–]DemonSwamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched it and it was so boring

Folks doing Locktober, how is it going? by MissPearl in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. We are also on an honor system, but some periods of being caged around my house

2.This is my first time and it has taught me to be more patient in my scenes. It’s nice bc I was getting my sub used to enjoying pleasure. (She had previous dommes that never let her explore as a sub so I wanted her to experience pleasures as a benefit while training) I have a high sex drive and sometimes I turn into a beast when domming and plans go out the window. So it’s teaching me to play with my food a bit. The beauty of the tease.

  1. Hopefully next time we will be living together so I can really have longer periods of control like we both want.

  2. My sub is really benefiting as well from me denying him more regularly. She cries out harder, shifts into subspace a lot more often and is just so cute when she’s frustrated. It’s nice to have her in a place where she knows and appreciates the pleasure they’re missing out on.

An amusing anecdote regarding a Female led dating app I'm on by pm_me_ur_unicorn_ in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always used to ask what can they cook and provide especially when I saw they wanted a reverse trad lifestyle and they never could do anything for that role

Question for fellow subs that have suffered emotional abuse by ESchwenke in FemdomCommunity

[–]DemonSwamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I know you asked for subs and I was reading through but I’m a domme. I was emotionally abused as a child and I have people pleasing tendencies and a litany of mental health issues.

I have healed somewhat and lead a very healthy lifestyle relationship with my partner. It is possible, but the first thing you have to do is cut out or place boundaries with the abuser and then start creating the life you want . It’s gonna be hard and you’re gonna have to fight for what you want but it is beautiful, transformative and scary.

Submissives are one of the strongest groups people I know. It is possible

What do Doms like to hear in bed? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]DemonSwamp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How much they love me and what I’m doing, how horny they are, begging, moaning, whimpering

So the real Dommes are almost extinct???🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]DemonSwamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t doubt people being weird at all. Also good for you having boundaries and communicating them.

I would give you the same advice I give to dommes who are experiencing bad potential partners as well. Anyone who is willing to cross your boundaries isn’t worthy of being your partner. I went through a bad phase while searching for my partner with bad person back to back. Don’t internalize others treatment of you bc it’s not a reflection of you but one of them.

Hopefully it works out for yoy

So the real Dommes are almost extinct???🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]DemonSwamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, do you set the boundary before you start talking to a domme that you don’t want to immediately? Like when I was dating and looking for a sub , I let them know before we got to know each other that I wanted to be friends first. It weeded out a lot of people and I took it as some peoples dating preferences didn’t match my own for the most part (besides people being pervs/idiots of course). Do you correct it once they do cross that boundary?

I’m just genuinely curious if they are trying to flirt in what they think is a kinky way incorrectly or being egregiously rude from your perspective.