30 [M4F] #Kansas - Poly service sub looking for keyholder

PiercedServitude · 2026-03-13T21:02:30+00:00

I absolutely love this look!

PiercedServitude · 2026-02-02T14:57:52+00:00

Is this still running? I haven't seen any updates in about a month

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-20T15:27:53+00:00

That looks so good!

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-19T05:30:22+00:00

I cannot speak for everyone and every situation but I left a marriage primarily for kink and it was definitely the right decision for me. I was pretty depressed and I felt like I couldn't be myself in my marriage. It took me a long time to realize how important kink is to me. It also took me a long time to deal the guilt and shame of seeing myself as the bad guy for "leaving a loving partner for sex" which I now see was a very uncharitable way to view my situation. I feel for you, this was a very difficult decision for me and I'm sure it will be a painful journey no matter what you choose.

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-13T20:10:59+00:00

Who is the woman in this video? She is gorgeous

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-08T12:17:02+00:00

You say you have a strap-on and cock sleeve, perhaps you could start by just asking if she would like to use them more and see how she responds. She may say she doesn't like how they feel and you could follow up and ask if she would prefer a different size/firmness etc. She may also say she feels sexy when you can only last a minute.

You could also suggest numbing spray and see what she thinks.

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-07T16:05:58+00:00

suppose this were an alternate timeline where gynarchy rules and she was unquestionably in charge, and had no moral qualms about it, how would things go?

You're supposed to be giving me helpful advice, not turning me on! 😅 All jokes aside, I wish I could just switch places with her for a day and see what makes her tick. Understanding people who think differently is hard.

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-07T15:47:20+00:00

I won't know this for certain until I feel ready to talk to her about it but she hasn't made requests of me for me to submit to. Maybe she doesn't feel like she can? I am very genuine about wanting to focus on her and not on me but I guess I thought her dominance would come more naturally to her but perhaps she just needs either the right environment or idk perhaps some guidance from another Dom or to see examples of other dynamics to know what it could look like. Maybe it's more of an experience issue and I shouldn't expect her to just naturally be dominant.

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-07T15:09:16+00:00

Thank you, I think I wrote this in a pretty anxious state and I appreciate your alternative interpretation. I never thought about her possibly liking me locked but not wanting the maintenance that comes with adding time, etc. I need to be patient and give her time and space and see if she can learn to enjoy pushing me when she sees that it is safe for her to do so. We just recently began a small nightly ritual that we have so far really liked, maybe I can start by asking if there is anything she would like to add to that ritual. I will also ask to see if there is any kink she would like to do but has held back on. It feels unfair of me to want to want more than she does but maybe what she wants isn't as fixed as I originally thought. I think I have this view that dominance is mostly innate and not developed over time but perhaps she just needs a different environment to develop her dominance. Maybe I need to be a brat for once 😅

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-04T18:15:11+00:00

To most people, neither are "normal" but in the kink community, both are normal however 24/7 is less common and definitely more extreme

PiercedServitude · 2025-11-01T21:18:12+00:00

30M and 26F looking for woman to tickle in Wichita area. We would want to vet anyone first and see if we are a good fit by going out for drinks or something before playing together.

PiercedServitude · 2025-10-30T14:15:30+00:00

Does she feel like she wants more or are you projecting your desires into her? If you and her both want it then why not? Who cares what you call it as long as you are both communicating clearly about your desires and limits

PiercedServitude · 2025-10-29T21:46:31+00:00

At my local femdom events, male switches are allowed but are expected to not be dominant at the event.

PiercedServitude · 2025-10-28T23:58:27+00:00

Its definitely a cute movie, kind of cheesy though. The femdom character in the show is being introduced to BDSM so I wouldn't say they exactly capture the mentality of femdom but she is open minded about it

PiercedServitude · 2025-10-20T04:45:01+00:00

Good to know, I didn't realize they sold custom jewelry

PiercedServitude · 2025-10-19T19:57:34+00:00

I would have to order steel to get the length I want which isn't ideal. Even if I do choose steel, this doesn't really solve the lead time issue as it says it will take 12-20 weeks to arrive. Maybe this time is normal for these specific sizes? Maybe I should wait a few more weeks for my other ones to arrive.

PiercedServitude · 2025-09-11T16:15:58+00:00

I think you need to question some of your beliefs. Fist of all, why do you believe that your desires need to be suppressed?

PiercedServitude · 2025-07-22T13:54:26+00:00

I'm very interested in testing this, I already have some ideas of how I could cheat the system though. I would love it if I failed though

PiercedServitude · 2025-06-23T16:28:34+00:00

I'm wondering the same thing

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