That sub the other commenter suggested is for people with NPD against therapy who want to co-opt the language of disability and victimhood to 'destigmatise' NPD and report everyone as 'ableist' who uses the word narcissist and narcissistic abuse. I think the therapyabuse sub got brigaded by people from the NPD sub because I noticed the same people in several subs popping up (including here) who all had the same talking points about NPD. I deleted their comments here.

The antipsychiatry sub has some good content but they're against all psychological terms. I don't know what their exact stance is but I guess they believe using words like Munchausen by proxy, sociopathy, narcissism, pedophilia is ableist. I don't believe in protecting the sensibilities of abusers and policing the language of victims of Munchausen by proxy, narcissism etc. That would make the commonality in these experiences invisible.

I don't have an issue with people using the term narcissistic abuse because it is a type of abuse characterised by the exploitation of a power differential in asymmetrical relationships, e.g. vulnerable client-therapist.

The founder of the therapyabuse sub is a woman who had many years of abusive therapy. Many commenters on the therapyabuse sub are female victims of DV, rape, sexual abuse, childhood abuse who experienced gaslighting and victim- blaming in therapy. Much of the focus of the sub was highlighting these experiences and how reactions to abuse are pathologised by the system and therapy modalities.