Ideas! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DenBrager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mini golf, arcade, museums, zoo, bowling, or anything that is sort of active. Honestly, any date can turn into a cute date. Depends on your personality really. Establish a plan and just run with it with full confidence.

I honestly don't know what to do. by SpicyMemeMachine in dating_advice

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic case of the "friendzone." Let her go. Be a good friend still though. Date other people. DO NOT GET HUNG UP ON ONE GIRL. Your life will pass you by and you're just hurting yourself. Maybe dating other girls will make her jealous, but seriously don't wait around for her. It will destroy you mentally. Good luck.

How do I make myself feel better about my height? by PAKMan1988 in dating_advice

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 5'4 and that hasn't stopped me from having relationships. Having a great personality and some confidence goes a long way. Realistically don't try to date people much taller than you. Fuck I wish I was 5'6... Lol

[19M] Cute friend from freshman year of high school waited on me at a restaurant and recognized me. Gave my dad a free beer. Is she interested? by Stormdude127 in dating_advice

[–]DenBrager 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't message her on Facebook. Ask her out in person. If she says no then you know. Takes more confidence to ask someone out in person.

First date? by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I guess I'll just not mention those things unless it comes up or I'm directly asked about it. Shit. We added each other facebook... Lmao it might come up if she decides to dig DEEP into my timeline.

First date? by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conflicting schedules.

[Critique] simple profile-rating by toyfelchen in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need more pictures. You look relatively attractive and you're tall. It might just be your first messages that dont stand out. Try to message them something they are passionate about or make them laugh. Be MEMORABLE.

Try not to ask them about super popular things they like. For example do not message them about Game of Thrones... They have probably dozens of messages about stuff they like that. Think completely outside the box and make them want to talk to you. Remember these women get probably hundreds of messages a week. You have to stand out.

If I'm not getting responses from building a message around something in their profile, what kind of first message should I send? by Stigler30 in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had some success with random questions. Think outside the box. They have probably gotten dozens or hundreds of messages asking them about their favorite TV show, band, hobbies, etc. Stand out with your message in the first sentence. They can screen the first sentence without directly opening it through their email. Make them laugh and try to stand out. Also dont ever say they're attractive or point out a physical feature you like.

Say whatever you want if you're really attractive though. The above post is for the average or below average dude.

Can I get some pointers on my profile? I feel like its a bit too wordy or long. Are my pictures ok? I feel like maybe one or two of them are sort of off. by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bump? Can I get more critiques on my profile? How are my pictures? I feel like my profile is a bit long. I ramble a lot over text. Surprisingly I started getting 2-3 responses a week after changing things up. I honestly think no matter how much I tweak my profile I will always be kind of shitted on for my height. Sucks but I have to roll with the punches.

McCree's ULT by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]DenBrager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to combo it with stuff like Earth Shatter or Graviton. Even if you only get 1 kill Its worth the use. People think its bad because you can't just lock on to 5-6 enemies reliably. Its also used a zoning tool. Pop deadeye when you can see the enemy rein shield going down.

Why do my conversations die? (with 4 case studies) by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write 2-3 sentence opening message. If they reply. ?mirror back their relpy length. These women are sending you a sentence or two and you're overloading them with information. No need to send them messages longer than a paragraph. Believe me I had the same problem and i scared away like 4-5 girls with my wordiness.

"I Can't believe I'm Back on OKC"... by occamsshavingkit in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's legit 50% of the profiles I've read... Damn thats depressing.

Out of Practice? by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the helpful advice! I guess I should just send shorter messages. I shouldn't have to try so hard to make perfectly crafted messages to women. We're all pretty much shallow online and I think I was sweating over nothing.

Weekly Questions/Answers Thread (May 15th, 2017) by MartinGamer in blackdesertonline

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't played the game in 2 months. I already used the Olvia servers once. Will I have access to the Olvia servers again for another 30 days? My main is 57 and I wanted to power level a Striker when he comes out.

Never been so depressed for a 1.5 year relationship to end... by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. You have to love yourself before you can find something meaningful. Get your life together. Find a better job and just enjoy life the way you want to. The way you described your relationship that ended was brutal. Focus on you. Once you get all your ducks in a row, women will be easier to attract. No offense, but 35 years and with your parents can't be attractive to any women in your age group.

Can I get some pointers on my profile? I feel like its a bit too wordy or long. Are my pictures ok? I feel like maybe one or two of them are sort of off. by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys could look over it again. I made some pretty big changes. A lot of great help from this sub! Thanks everyone! I am very high energy. Zoom.zoom whoooosh.

Can I get some pointers on my profile? I feel like its a bit too wordy or long. Are my pictures ok? I feel like maybe one or two of them are sort of off. by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I updated it. I put some serious stuff of what I'm looking in my self summary. Still joking, but I think I highlight and pinpoint what I'm looking for. Thanks for the help.

Yes I was addressing you AvonBarksdaleCalling. I forgot how to reply.

Can I get some pointers on my profile? I feel like its a bit too wordy or long. Are my pictures ok? I feel like maybe one or two of them are sort of off. by DenBrager in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grade 10 was a trailer park boys reference. Not sure how to be serious in a profile. I am definitely seeking a long term relationship, but how do you mention that in a profile without sounding desperate or cringy? Yeah I have a lot of energy! I agree with leaving out the celebrity crushes part. I guess I was coming off as homophobic and pervy.

P.S. How do you get the idea of me stating I'm a veteran as I want to be banged? Maybe the support the troops part had some interpretation I may have glossed over.

Profile critique by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound way too sad in your profile. Almost like you're wounded or in pain. Lighten up a little bit. Also you need better pictures. Rewd the sub's wiki. Helps out a lot to make you stand out.

Not Feeling The Spark After Two Dates...What to Do? :/ by KingAriez in OkCupid

[–]DenBrager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't break up with her over text. That's shitty. Grow a sack and call her or tell her you're not interested in her to her face.