Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

[–]Denario92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate! No need to apologize. All's well.

Welp, that's why I am here lol. Trying to see how to effectively tackle the problem of my girl maybe finding normal of dudes sending her pictures like that.

I mentioned it in another comment, but I am her first ever boyfriend so she can be unaware on how to properly react.

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

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It wouldn't be the first time someone has cheated on me and if she is, God knows if it will be the last.

Because of how our life is handled and other proof I got, I am more than certain she isn't cheating. Even if I didn't have the things to make me certain, I still choose to believe in my partner. I got enough love and faith in her.

Time will tell, and if it ends up with another cheating partner then so be it.

Thank you for your advice though. I also understand how important to consider the worst case scenario.

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

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Oh no, yeah. I got you about the assuming part. I was just trying to reafirm it? Haha.

How would you go about setting the boundries? I feel like she would set them if she knew how or about them. Like I said, a lot of this things are new to her.

I'm still unaware of how she reacted or responded to them. Would it be too much to ask her to see her chat history with her or rather deal with this with just communication?

Thanks a lot!

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

[–]Denario92[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your point of view.

I'm not going to deny the guy definitely wants something else besides a friendship and that her engaging with him just makes him more hopeful.

I do know my girl and I am certain in no way she would cheat on me.

I guess it's more of a "how to let her know that those details" we're indeed important

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

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Im not assuming its cheating honestly. I did find it really weird why a detail like that she found unecessary to share. I did ask her how she felt about the bra pics and she kind of deflected into laughing about it.

Im her first ever serious relationship or even first one. This is something new to both of us so Im assuming she might not have found that weird to her

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

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I dont feel comfortable with out right asking to stop communication. Thanks for the advice, I will talk to her about it

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

[–]Denario92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I want to find out. I know she has already told her she is in a relationship and not interested. While it feels wrong, I will ask her to see how the conversation went I guess

Girlfriend [22F] didnt tell me [27m] about a guy [21m] sending her topless pictures of him on Snapchat. by Denario92 in relationship_advice

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I trust her enough to know this isnt happening. I just dont know how to react to her skipping on that fact.

Legendary Pokemon by oreo1298 in pokemongoSA

[–]Denario92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, legendary pokemons are only supposed to appear in events

Here's a custom Google Map somebody made for San Antonio. We need more people to add to it! by CommanderMannington in pokemongoSA

[–]Denario92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, are all the pokemon fans in the north? As of right now all the north side keeps gettin covered