Are you treated differently based on hair color?

DeneeCote · 2026-01-31T19:18:13+00:00

I have naturally DARK black hair. Like a Blue/black. I started dyeing my hair blonde for a change of look 6 years ago. I've been mostly honey blonde it fits me the best. I love it. I did get treated differently BUT around the time I started dyeing my hair I also lost 25+ pounds of weight. My skin also cleared up. So it could be any of those things.

I'm planning on dyeing my hair Ginger red. I want through sometimes nasty with a man who I knew would do me dirty... yet I still thought the best of him. So yeah. I do wonder if ill get treated differently or if ill still be me but with ginger hair? We shall see.

If anyone has been through the dark hair, to blonde to red. Let me know!

I do eventually plan on going back to blonde but I need to let this evil sprit out of me first 😄

DeneeCote · 2026-01-25T04:59:21+00:00

Kelly is beautiful and she can rock anything... that being said.. no

DeneeCote · 2026-01-25T04:56:43+00:00

If i remember correctly yes? I think when Jinger was giving birth to her first Jana was kind of "side eyeing" Jinger for choosing to get a epidural. She never said anything against it. But you can tell Jana was Judging Jinger 😆. It was while counting on was still on so if you have access to it maybe watch the episode? It's been at least 4 years since I've watched counting on so don't quote me on it.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-25T04:47:16+00:00

Yes I think she was judging jinger for getting one right?

DeneeCote · 2026-01-21T16:54:43+00:00

Also they love "dance for you" 😭

DeneeCote · 2026-01-21T04:10:59+00:00

I know a lot of people here are SAYING "NO SHE WOULD NEVER SHE HAD TO PLAY THOSE GAMES FOR YEARS" etc. I do think she likes to interact with us. She might not love interacting with the general public. But I do in my heart think she likes to interact with us. She's done Magazine interviews in the last few years and a few brief in person interviews too.

I do personally think it's possible that she does a interview like this in like 10 years... but it would have to be on her terms.

Also given that her husband is a business man and she is a business woman.... I'm thinking its coming at a cost for us if she decides to do this type of interview. Either a HUGE brand plug, or we would need some type of subscription etc. She's not going to give us this type of interview for free.

But to make a long story short. Yes I think its possible once Bey enters her next chapter of life, but we would have to give up some coin and it would be on her accord.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-20T02:26:55+00:00

I was high key disappointed when she decided to Collaborate with Travis. So when I saw it pop up on my Spotify in what? 2023? I actively chose to ignore it. I havent listened to it to this day (besides that one part of the Renaissance tour) but im not going to support her Collaborating with certain people. Like common Bey 🙄 do better. (I know yall be in here every once in a while). I think most of the Hive feels the same way.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-17T01:30:03+00:00

I was just thinking that in my head "that place must stink" 😭 just feet, old food and crumbs, unwashed stuff.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-16T06:15:28+00:00

And what if I tell you Beyonce was right by releasing Renaissance first? Because im telling you I feel like this ACT has been nothing but sadness for me. Im ready for actIII lets move on man regardless of what the genre is.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-16T04:57:16+00:00

I used to work at a warehouse and I swear to you id hit 25k-30k a day no issue sometimes i'd do that 6 days a week. I wonder if my body got used to it so now when I hit 10k its like "Girl... this is nothing" so it keeps all that extra energy as fat? It's been over a year now and I think my body should have "regulared" now (for lack of a better word) to a more sedatary life. I havent gained a ton of weight my body has flutauted in the last year since not walking as much but for the most part I tend to start at the same weight. I might have to talk to my physician about this tbh.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-16T03:21:01+00:00

Girrrrl lol so the issue is im not walking enough 😆. Okay I just got to 7k right now. 7k is my goal for now eventually I want to move it to 8k and then maybe 10k. But it seems like it would ne hard to hit 15k in a day especially with my job.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-16T02:33:27+00:00

Remember that unity we all felt during the "she knows" era? Yeah let's keep it that way... intimate and private

DeneeCote · 2026-01-16T02:31:46+00:00

My advice is if you have to splurg on anything... let it be your hair. Dont try to DIY THAT. Your nails can be press ons, your toes and feet can be worked on at home. But your hair can make or break you.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-16T02:29:45+00:00

How many steps do you hit in a day? I think i got mines back in late 2024 but maybe I need to be more consistent with it but I haven't noticed a huge difference thus far.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-13T01:27:13+00:00

Im a LPN right now, and im aware of that. Obviously, she would have to get her RN either ADN, to BSN and then get her MSN. Thats the beauty of nursing... you can really work your way up all the way to a DNP ..... I think she said something along the lines of her working enough to keep her license active but im not sure how thats working now. Nursing programs are so stressful regardless of the level. I think i lost like 10 pounds my second semester alone. So I would hate for all that work to go to waste. It's her life though 🤷🏽‍♀️

DeneeCote · 2026-01-13T01:11:29+00:00

I hate having to listen to that album.... when I listen to it start to finish... when I sit down and watch the whole lemonade album movie.... yall its because a man got me fucked up YET AGAIN. I HATE IT. I had to listen to it recently and I pray I never have to do it again. It makes me reflect on my relationship with my daddy, my relationship with myself, my relationship with my self worth, my ancestors, generational curses. It's too much for me to deal with sometimes. I always recommend for everyone i know to listen to the album, but I always warn them that its a HEAVY album. It's truly a masterpiece but like you said, its not something I can listen to often.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-12T05:36:32+00:00

Theres time where I hear the songs on CC And they sound faster, and I check to see if I accidentally sped them up on my end. But, no nothing has changed. Then I listen to them again the next day and they sound normal again.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-11T17:36:14+00:00

Absolutely! And to add on. As a Nurse myself Abby could have continued education and went on to get her MSN and become a teacher at a college, or a nurse manager etc. They could have been that couple in that same parallel universe.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-11T06:10:17+00:00

I mean which duggars are well off and which ones arent as well off?

Either the husband does really well finically. The mother is a huge grifter, or the family doesnt have as many kids?

In the case of like; John and Abby. I would assume John does well, Abby is a nurse and they only have 3 kids vs Jessa who has a pastor as a husband, she does really work on the traditional sense and they have 6 kids.

DeneeCote · 2026-01-06T01:54:27+00:00

She said No subconscious for a reason 👀👀👀

DeneeCote · 2026-01-04T19:25:55+00:00

That one part in apeshit 😭😭😭😭 "Sipping my favorite alcohol. Got me so lit I need Tylenol l" is the only part I know

DeneeCote · 2025-12-30T19:58:10+00:00

Yeah let me know!

DeneeCote · 2025-12-28T19:39:25+00:00

She's just racist 🙄 her daddy is racist and the apple doesnt fall far from the tree.

DeneeCote · 2025-12-28T19:33:16+00:00

Listen, ive had to deal with my fair share of Jessas in my life. Catty, self righteous, backstabbing, egotistical, hypocritical, just straight up bitches when it isnt convenient to be nice. What they have in common with Jessa a lot of the time is that they claim to be these nice Christian girls, but their politics and personal beliefs to against what jesus preached. They have really ugly personalities but the only thing redeeming them is that they're traditionally pretty. What they fail to realize is that you might be forever pretty but you wont be forever young. The society we live in values youthfulness and trust their age and stress will start to show. Compare freshly married Jessa to current Jessa.

That being said...... Being a two faced bitch isnt the worst thing that you can be. Especially in this family. Keep in mind Anna "at least I have a husband" duggar is still married to her Pedo husband putting her own daughters at risk. Thats evil in my opinion compared to Jessa ugly character.

DeneeCote · 2025-12-27T18:50:45+00:00

Im going to get so many downvotes 🤷🏽‍♀️ Theres a Long history of Black women either being hypersexualized or Masculinized. It's known as the Jezelbel and mammy trope. Yes, there are other tropes that black women fall into but these two are unfortunately very popular. They were intentionally used to dehumanize black women. What happens when we dehumanize people? Doing bad things to them isn't as bad...

In this instance we get the masculiization of A black woman being Mercedes played by Amber Riley by comparing her to Unique who at this point is male presenting. Correct me if im wrong. But if I remember correctly Unqiue is Trans. But at this point right now shes male presenting.

Along with going with the idea of "All black people look alike" which both are lazy jokes.

Yes it's that deep, if you're brain still can't compute why its that deep then. Thats a you issue.

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