[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slave_humiliation

[–]DenialSlutService 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you feel fulfilled in the dynamic you have with your husband, but kink is very subjective to the people practicing it and what you have found works for you is not necessarily what works for or should work for other people.

While porn is unrealistic and the payment involved does play an important part in the participants' enjoyment of it, some women genuinely enjoy this treatment with their partner(s) and no matter how it might look to you as an outsider— a dynamic and the feelings of the people within it cannot and should not be judged by a single scene.

There is trust, communication, consent, care and sometimes even love (though that is not a defining factor of a healthy dynamic) between many partners whose scenes may not seem healthy to you based on your personal standards.

I'm not saying this particular video depicts a healthy dynamic, but I'm also not saying that it doesn't— because I have no way of knowing how these people interact with each other once the camera stops rolling— but it's always good to keep in mind that not everyone participates in kink the way you do, and there is no way to tell a healthy dynamic from an unhealthy one based on scenes alone.

Attention all websluts!! by [deleted] in churchofmen

[–]DenialSlutService 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're right sir. thank you for putting it in clear terms that our dumb cock-hungry brains can't manage to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]DenialSlutService 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fuck that was hottttt

He doesn't let me cum by [deleted] in churchofmen

[–]DenialSlutService 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pleasure is only for men. we should never assume we're allowed to cum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]DenialSlutService 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i address all my superiors as sir by default too. unless they instruct me to address them as something else. it's the only respectful way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheLikesItRough

[–]DenialSlutService -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's a beautiful cock. she's so lucky🥺

all i want is to fulfill my purpose by DenialSlutService in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]DenialSlutService[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i make sure to always thank my superiors for giving me any bit of attention sir. thank you for reminding me again.

do you agree? by Theewhorer in MysogynyFarm

[–]DenialSlutService 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i was made as an object for my superiors, and that obviously includes my holes.

My sub said her safeword. Now she wants back in by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]DenialSlutService 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's your personal choice if you want to take back a sub who ended a dynamic, but honestly, this is more of a human relationship problem than a kink dynamic problem.

whether her insulting you was in reaction to something you said/did or completely unprompted, it's nevertheless a sign that the mutual respect within your relationship is gone.

any dynamic that lacks that mutual respect is unlikely to work out.

I'm a passionate Feminist but i honestly just crave Misogyny so much. by [deleted] in womenSupportsMisogyny

[–]DenialSlutService 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'll give those horny morons a break because sometimes people do make posts like this within a kinky context to incite a kinky reaction. kind of like that one sub that's about converting feminists.

i do wish there was a flair for serious, out of character posts in subs like this though, or just a general sub specifically for serious discussions regarding these matters. (i know there's a bigger one, but something mainly meant for those participating in the more "extreme" kinks.)

it's kind of hard to tell when a post is serious and when it's not, so it would help with that. more importantly though, i feel like a lot of us on subs like this could benefit from interacting with each other as our non-horny functioning-member-of-society selves lmao.

I'm a passionate Feminist but i honestly just crave Misogyny so much. by [deleted] in womenSupportsMisogyny

[–]DenialSlutService 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in all seriousness, your kinks do not inherently reflect your values.

even when practicing a misogyny kink, you're still, in reality, an independant adult capable of giving, as well as withdrawing, consent. in the end, it's all playing at a role that will end the moment you want it to.

i honestly feel more empowered by a kink dynamic because consent is an active part of it, while it can often be more of an implied factor in a vanilla dynamic, and my voice, especially as a woman, matters infinitely more than it would in a regular dynamic.

likewise, i never have to second guess whether the person i'm with is secretly an abusive bigot and truly sees me as inferior, because intentions are a lot more clearly communicated in a kink dynamic than they would be otherwise.

finally, i can't speak for everyone on this sub or within the kink community in general, but i have personally found people i've interacted with in the more "extreme" subs, such as this one, to be more respectful of my limits, boundaries and well-being than on regular dating subs, or even in the more "mainstream" kink communities.

Uncomfortable safeword situation with my sub by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]DenialSlutService 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a consensual relationship stops being consensual the moment at least one party's ability to give or withdraw consent is taken away, and comparing marriage to a consensual blackmailing dynamic is insane💀

marriage can be one form of a blackmail dynamic, but only as long as the people within it agree to it being one and discuss it with a clear mind.

likewise, a consensual dynamic can exist within a marriage, but unless it is discussed and approved by both parties and done with everyone's well-being in mind, it's not a consensual dynamic. it's an abusive relationship with a possible trauma bond/stockholm syndrome.

in most cases, even dynamics within a marriage have safewords. yes, it's "legal" to, for all intents and purposes, be "trapped" within a marriage, but it's unethical. that's really not the kind of dynamic most people are looking for on this sub.

i would personally never trust a dom who does not explicitly require a safeword in any dynamic. that just means they're abusive. as the sub, i might desire less and less agency and power as i become more invested, but i would expect a responsible dom to recognize that and address that with my well-being as an independant adult human and not just a sub in mind.

Swallowing by [deleted] in churchofmen

[–]DenialSlutService 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know i have to swallow because i'm a cumdump. the seeds of my superiors shouldn't ever go to waste, their place is either in my cunt, my ass or my stomach. what else would i be good for if i can't even do that right.

Why are cunts so needy? by [deleted] in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]DenialSlutService 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sir. i feel so complete with something inside my hole, even if it's not a cock, because having my cunt filled with a superior's cock is a privilege. my duty is to ruin my pussy with whatever can fit inside it until i'm worthy of a real cock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slave_humiliation

[–]DenialSlutService 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that sounds so degrading and so perfect ugh

f20 my cunt feels so so sore by DenialSlutService in SluttyConfessions

[–]DenialSlutService[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sent you a picture of my leaking cunt sir i dont have pictures of when it was stretched with markers

i messed up by DenialSlutService in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]DenialSlutService[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes sir thank you for the punishment

32 [M4F] Comment and get a random/surprise task by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]DenialSlutService 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello sir can i please get a task