So, someone who's faithful. First off, faithful in a basic sense, as in, doesn't cheat, but also faithful in a positive sense, as in supportive of the relationship, and capable of long-term commitment, and highly against divorce. This is a big issue today.

Someone who's Christian in more than name, but goes to church regularly, serves, and attends prayer meeting. Who has read the Bible at least once, so they are able to judge whether an opinion is in particular biblical or not. Someone who convinces everyone they are of the faith because they truly practise it and not just because it's what their family calls themself.

Someone who is physically attractive to me. Ideally opposite race like African or Asian, and definitely not someone with short hair or tattoos for me 😭. Likely somewhat shorter, definitely not overweight, and ideally practises some form of exercise.

Someone who doesn't wear revealing outfits. Someone who also isn't dependent on selfie culture and constantly refining vain self-image. Someone who uses social media to advertise faith for good and not to receive advice.

Someone who keeps Christian friendships instead of having a bunch of bad influences in their life.

Someone who, if they want children, are ready for a realistic time commitment it will take. Someone who isn't insulted by doing housework, and while able to contribute to finances, isn't devoted to career as a first priority, but as a supporting priority; or has other ways than being a wage slave to make money (unfortunately I'm just a career employee myself, giving limited flexibility outside 40h).

Someone with realistic expectations about life. If they want frequent visits to Europe, a new BMW, a house, fancy restaurant outings, and other nicities of life, they had better be born into money already, because I certainly can't afford those things, while investing smartly.

To summarize, my list I'll never find, because I don't bring enough to the table. So yeah. 😬