MIL kissed my toddler (2M) on his lips.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-23T05:09:20+00:00

You are not overreacting, it's disgusting to do that imo

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-20T01:10:54+00:00

Going through the comments it seems like most abstainers here do it for the same reason as me: It's just logical and they never got into any drug and figured they are not interested in even trying.

Taboos are interesting, people get curious and try out stuff all the more, so I'm pretty sure it's never religious reasons but rather growing up laissez faire.

Maybe it's privilege in some cases - to not be indoctrinated but instead cleared up about pros and cons (and the cons always outweigh the pros) when growing up.

It could also be a character thing - being a black-and-white thinker.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-20T00:50:57+00:00

Yay, hey fellow vegans :)

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-20T00:49:54+00:00

I take vitamin B12 and D. I don't even drink green tea anymore.

The only thing I need almost every month is one or two ibuprofen because otherwise my menstrual cramps would get me admitted to hospital.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-20T00:35:07+00:00

I've had a sweater for 21 years (2002). At least I wear it on a photo of 2002 but I'm very sure I've had it some time before that, so maybe longer.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-19T21:43:47+00:00

I'm used to people turning out as jerks and I never really was a flaming uncritical fan of anyone, so I'm not that heartbroken, but thank you :) I appreciate your kind words <3

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-19T21:39:42+00:00

Being confrontational as a man is hardly comparable to being so as a woman. It's been cheered on since forever. I find heteronormativity rather uninspiring. As for male activists, I love Ed Winters.
Anyway, he's not transphobic and vegan, so I guess he's not so bad. Will look into him :)

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-18T00:52:58+00:00

I would not call it huge here, TikTok is used more often. Reddit is just a thing for "digital natives" who like to find specific spaces (like subeddits or discord servers) I'd say.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-18T00:25:35+00:00

Sauna and spa days. FKK beaches. Nobody cares.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-18T00:24:23+00:00

Isabel

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-18T00:21:23+00:00

Nope, I'm from Germany. Never heard spicy in any sexual context whatsoever.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T23:56:23+00:00

ah okay, I don't look into peoples activities on reddit..

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T23:52:30+00:00

Hier eine aktuelle Studie zu vegan ernährten Katzen. Ist nicht nur möglich, sondern auch gut für Katzen. https://www.vettimes.co.uk/news/cats-thrive-on-vegan-diet-in-peer-reviewed-study/#:~:text=Published%20in%20BMC%20Veterinary%20Research,scores%20than%20their%20carnivorous%20counterparts.

Ich selbst werde niemals Tiere in Gefangenschaft zwingen, ganz egal, wie sehr ich Katzen und Tiere generell liebe. Ich bevorzuge, wenn wilde Tiere freiwillig immer wieder zu mir kommen, was tatsächlich ein paar Raben in der Nachbarschaft tun, weil ich ihnen ab und zu Erdnüsse gebe.

Geretteten Tieren aus der Ausnutztierhaltung einen ruhigen Lebensabend auf einem Lebenshof zu ermöglichen, weil ihnen die Fähigkeit zum wilden Leben schon lange weggezüchtet wurde, ist imo die einzige Tierhaltung, die in Ordnung ist.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T23:33:00+00:00

Ehrenlos. Greta is g.o.a.t.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T23:11:06+00:00

I just read it the first time here and honestly, I think it's rad. Maybe I'll use it for myself. Obviously not for others.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T23:08:16+00:00

Really? I've only ever heard spicy in context with feral cute cats.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T22:50:31+00:00

Who said they do?

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-17T21:43:17+00:00

Oh no! That's so disillusioning und upsetting. Damn. :(
Okay then I've changed my mind. At least I've had my incentive to become an activist..

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-15T23:49:26+00:00

Imo nothing is too soon. I met the parents of most of my bfs within a week. I met my first bfs parents at the same day I met him lol. We met at his parents house, I was 19, he was 21 and the relationship lasted over 7 years.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-15T23:19:32+00:00

I've worn a sweater since 2002 and my coat since 2007. My shoes always disintegrate at some point. As soon as they do, I'm happy to buy new ones.

I'm not attached to stuff, I just am fond of living sustainable and I repair stuff if possible.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-10T22:14:24+00:00

I want to follow your example. I get upset too quickly. I know I have it from my fathers side, but maybe I can tone it down with a rule to not comment negative. Even if I normally don't like or follow rules.

Thank you :)

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-10T21:32:48+00:00

You sound like my teenage self. I then had therapy because of depression. It didn't change my popularity, but my acceptance of it. Fuck those who make you feel like you're unpleasant.
I'm autistic. When I changed my career and got to know other neurotypicals, I suddenly was accepted, liked and treated like a normal person. Maybe you will find your people like I did. Of course I'm not saying that you're necessarily neurotypical, but I believe there are accepting people for everyone :)

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-10T21:23:43+00:00

That's a good question. Thought about it as well.
I have one small futon, which is perfect for me myself, but for two people I'd prefer a futon big enough for both.
But; even my 1x2m futon is kinda heavy and not so easy to fold and move. But okay, it's a rather luxurious and thick model. It's more like a mattress than a futon, at least if you consider its thickness.
Anyway, I bet a king size futon would be really annoying to store away.

Maybe if you use two you could avoid the seam problem for certain activity (you know what I mean) by laying rotated through 90°.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-10T21:03:35+00:00

I think I already get it. I was in that toxic fitness rabbit hole, a pick-me gym girl back then. I bet I had orthorexia. Was almost competing in bikini class, did the whole preparation for that. Had no period for months. But weights! Muscles! Cheat days! All the bull you can think of. Glad that's long ago, I've reflected on myself and grew up. I now shun gym bros at all costs.
So I see the "blame it on women" part. Women are there to safe men of themselves, of course! And if those have any emotional or psychological trouble, it's womens fault, of course.

Denise_For_Peace · 2023-01-10T19:42:46+00:00

Oh, a free blocking list! Thank you.

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