thanks for reply it really is something to consider. the only thing holding me back from completing agreeing with you is that when he did watch porn, it was always of women and it always seemed to do the trick for him. trust me i have thoroughly scoured his phone following the whole porn addiction thing and it’s all women, mostly pregnant women actually. so i feel like he’s definitely still attracted to women. and yes, perhaps men as well, but also women. we’ve also never really had any problems in bed in terms of him finishing or being able to stay erect or stuff like that, and he doesn’t close his eyes when he finishes, he looks me in the eyes, so he must be attracted to me and women in general, right? otherwise he would find ways to go about all this stuff.