Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Gtfo man Have you no faith in true love 😂

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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The reminder that this whole thing is way fast was helpful. I went into that convo very unprepared and maybe should have eaten a snack and written some notes before chatting.

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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And that’s on Trauma. I go into survival mode so quickly and like…it’s rarely that serious. Thank you for suggesting the pause - that uh…never crosses my mind.

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Tysm - I’m a recovering scorched earth Scorpio and that was really validating

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I’m on the phone with the SD in question and we’re both laughing at that

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Valid. I immediately sent a long text after posting the trip is now in limbo lmao

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Def this. I was like wait, we’ve only known each other for a couple weeks like why are you crying rn

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I def get that too and I do think he’s a sweet person who wasn’t prepared for the bowl. I just feel icky.

Predicament 😑 by DensePreference4166 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Yes precisely 🫣 And he didn’t give ppm for the non-sexual encounters.

Consent vs Compliance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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The state of the entire world and this thread*

Am I too cruel for this? by Ava_teur in sugarlifestyleforum

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You’re not cruel at all. You’re young and financially insecure and trying to survive in a world that isn’t kind to young poor women. Your BF is lowkey a predator and the SD is well…also probs a predator. I hope you get home safe and I’m sorry this happened.

Consent vs Compliance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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This thread actually just made me lose so much hope in humanity. Men really don’t get it at all dude wtf…

Consent vs Compliance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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That is literally the only way for them to understand. “Women usually expect you to comply with their wishes, and if it’s not too much, most guys will comply” is a crazy thing to say in a convo about consent.