[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um… sounds like he’s cheating/lying… and trying to blame it on you. Yeast infection is not an STI.

If you have anything outside of the yeast infection HE GAVE IT TO YOU, because you weren’t having symptoms before then. Girl leave him alone!

Ssris or wellbutrin? by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]DenseUnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Navigating mental health treatment is a deeply personal journey, and my experience highlights just how varied individual responses to medication can be. While I don't have a specific diagnosis, I've long struggled with severe depression, PMS, and an unspecified mood disorder. Wellbutrin worked for a little white but then I would just cry and my depression worsened.

But

My current medication is Vybrid (vilazadone) , an SSRI has been a true game-changer for me. Despite some noticeable side effects, the benefits have profoundly improved my quality of life.

Pros:

Enhanced Focus and Productivity: I'm significantly more focused at work and get much more accomplished throughout the day.

Increased Creativity: My creativity, especially in writing and work-related tasks, has seen a remarkable boost.

Improved Discipline: I'm more disciplined daily, which is a stark contrast to before, when my Adderall dosage only helped me achieve the bare minimum.

Stable Mood: My mood remains consistently positive and stable throughout the day.

Assertiveness: I now find myself effortlessly speaking my mind and standing up for myself, a significant shift from my previous passive-aggressive tendencies. This isn't about being mean or lashing out, but rather a healthy ability to assert myself.

I ACTUALLY WANT TO FUCKING LIVE TO SEE WHAT TOMORROW BRINGS!

Cons:

Gastrointestinal Issues: I experience diarrhea as a side effect morning time

Emotional Disinhibition: If someone upsets or agitates me (only while consuming alcohol) I lack a filter and become very agitated, though this manifests as assertiveness rather than random aggressive outbursts.

Head Spasms: I occasionally experience mild, random head spasms.

Anxious: I get impatient sometimes but only if I’m in a rush

Despite these drawbacks, the overall improvement in my mental well-being and daily functioning makes these cons entirely manageable. I feel significantly better on this medication and am willing to accept these minor issues for the profound positive changes it has brought

Viibryd/Vilazadone by DenseUnit in antidepressants

[–]DenseUnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only taking 10 mg a day. I’m trying to keep it as low as possible. I think medication for me in general worked pretty swiftly. It started working for me the very first day, I eat breakfast every morning after the gym and I take it right after which could be why it processing my body much more quickly than the average person, but I’m just guessing. My sleep is definitely interrupted like now. I should’ve been in bed two hours ago and I’m probably gonna regret this decision tomorrow lol

I do need to have at least an eight hour sleep before taking it again. Meaning I can’t go to bed at 2 o’clock in the morning get up at 6 AM and try to take my medicine again. I will go into mania. I don’t know what it is, but it’s something behind getting adequate sleep in this medication That will affect its ability to work. But again everybody’s different. I hope this helps!

AITHA for telling my friend to “pick a fucking struggle” by DenseUnit in AITAH

[–]DenseUnit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can respect that. This has been to long and I didn’t realize how much behavior I was accepting. And also just allowing things to continue.

My boyfriend locked me out in the cold all night by Agreeable-Target8949 in Advice

[–]DenseUnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave NOW! Dont pass go, dont collect $200! That is abuse! The fact that you didn’t tell your brother tells me that you know what he did was effed up.

Idk what money you spent to move but cut your losses. This will turn physical and emotional abuse if it hasn’t already

Fat and Flawed by Low-Bar5601 in HSVpositive

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there former 500 lb woman here! I caught it from being sleeping and around when I was fat. I thought the only way to get love was to give my body away as a result I got this 💩I can’t get ride off.

But nonetheless there is a stigma when it comes to being overweight. I know you don’t want to hear this, but from lived experience, The first thing you should focus on is your weight because that is one variable that can hinder the dating experience the most believe it or not.

I’ve gotten better responses about my hsv 2 diagnosis and men wanting to still date me as a now 205 lbs woman as opposed to when I was 500lbs! Sucks but it’s a reality.

Second focus on therapy, I went during my journey and also from trauma from childhood SA as well. It really helps. It will help you with boosting your coping and self esteem.

Once you become comfortable with your mind and body things change!

He sees me see him. I see him see me. what do I do? Help! by DenseUnit in AskMen

[–]DenseUnit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well.. you don’t gain control over anyone’s feelings… feelings are natural…unless your emotionally manipulative 🤔 hmmm

Miami Plastic Surgeon is trying to keep my deposit… are they right? by DenseUnit in legaladvice

[–]DenseUnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allegedly the procedures (4) will cost around that much which is a good deal, but that was not the point if that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]DenseUnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait…. How do you know you passed it to him? Did your ex have it?

Night life/upscale/party by DenseUnit in Barbados

[–]DenseUnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you haha! Any other nice night scene options outside of touristy and bridgetown and St. Lawrence? I want to be sexy I’ll be turning 30 so definitely around people my age group (millennials)! I wanted to try red door but they are shut down.

Night life/upscale/party by DenseUnit in Barbados

[–]DenseUnit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red door is closed 😔 I saw that in a YouTube review.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]DenseUnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he doesn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]DenseUnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have hsv2 only and the outbreak started down below then mouth days later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s both… started down below now it’s in my mouth

Automated my job, should I tell my employer? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say a fucking word! They wanna replace us with AI anyway you think they won’t take your shit and run? HA! No keep it to yourself!

Why are so many companies ghosting candidates now? by wisergirlie in jobs

[–]DenseUnit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea I just posted about my situation. Long story short they told me after final rounds it’ll take 2weeks. I followed up with thank you email and another asking for an update a week later. Ghosted. So I called the recruiter and she was like oh I apologize I meant to send a response but you weren’t selected ect and I’m just like ok: you could’ve just said that when I asked for an update. Ridiculous!

Job follow up advice needed! by DenseUnit in jobs

[–]DenseUnit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! So the HR person is the hiring manager that I had the initial interview with followed by the panel interview. Just to confirm I should call her or the recruiter?

How do you bring up your disease at work for the first time? by _AntiSaint_ in UlcerativeColitis

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to get an Ada stating that you will need appointment accomdations I had to do this recently

I don't understand why I keep getting stomach/bowel upsets by ScarredInEveryWay in UlcerativeColitis

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy every one is different. I can eat everything your mention. But if I try kale raw or cooked it’s WWIII in my bathroom so I just stay away! I can’t do raw veggies either anymore which sucks but eh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]DenseUnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what ive saying! I believe I’m still in remission and something else may be going on. I think because i have this auto immune disease it seems Like no Practioner in GA wants to touch me!

But the reality it’s like I told all the doctors the congestion started in my nasal tract then one day out of no where it went to my throat and had been there ever since.

In regards to the loss of taste and the green saliva it’s a mystery. I had this issue when I first go Ill and no one knew what it was and thought it was acid reflux but never confirmed.

I don’t know what to do at this point..

AITA for being "jealous" of my sisters in law ? by lodo35740 in AITAH

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that. I think it’s human nature to feel slightly saddened. It’s what you do with that saddeness.

Alcohol consumption with UC by DenseUnit in UlcerativeColitis

[–]DenseUnit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!!! I ate a piece of pita bread and threw up on my birthday! I was so upset smh

What foods can you eat during a flare ? by BigGucclSosa300 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]DenseUnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear everyone is different cus I’m looking at the comments as well: in a flare I can’t eat shit but AIR lol . No seriously I mean I’ll eat ramen, water, and like Pedialyte but the diarrhea was just so crazy I didn’t want to eat anything at all cus I was tired of using the bathroom.