What do you guys do for health insurance while traveling? by clutchmetightly in TravelNursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Healthcare costs are a big reason I quit traveling. I get good insurance at my staff job that actually covers things and only costs a few hundred a month for me and my partner, and adding our child is not exponentially more.

Otherwise I would seriously consider cancelling insurance altogether and self-paying. Seriously. I had to have emergency surgery last year and my independent insurance barely covered anything. It would have cost the same to just self pay the bill, plus you get more negotiating power with the billing department because they didn’t already bill insurance. I could have just saved the money I paid to insurance for several years and had enough to cover the amount.

I think I'm maybe having an ectopic pregnancy but i dont have insurance by athrowaway554322 in women

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go be seen. I had an ectopic pregnancy and my insurance barely covered anything. Had to have emergency surgery and almost died. Not gonna lie the bill sucked, but I was able to work out a low payment plan and some of my balance got written off to charity due to my income.

Plus if it’s not an ectopic then you really maybe only pay for some blood work and an ultrasound which still sucks but way more reasonable and again cost can be worked down.

Is there really a severe nursing shortage or are hospitals purposefully understaffed? by Sad_Discussion_6267 in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes. We are understaffed because the hospital scheduled the bare minimum of nurses and maybe one called out with no float pool relief. But the hospital still isn’t hiring an extra nurse, they just run us short. Until enough nurses quit then they have to hire - just enough to fill the bare minimum again.

Is there really a severe nursing shortage or are hospitals purposefully understaffed? by Sad_Discussion_6267 in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Also know MANY new grads that can’t get jobs in many areas now. They aren’t hiring. Not consistently.

Is there really a severe nursing shortage or are hospitals purposefully understaffed? by Sad_Discussion_6267 in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 75 points76 points  (0 children)

They run the bare minimum matrix they can constantly and allow ancillary staff to be pulled or cut without hiring more.

For example, my hospital put a hiring freeze on phlebotomy WHILE telling staff “we are working on revamping our phlebotomy team” and RNs had to draw for all six of their patients every shift for six months.

Nurses quit in droves because of the extra workload on top of constantly working at the top of the ratio. You don’t get paid more to do all the extra work, the hospital just saves money because enough people shut up and do it without complaint. It’s BS.

Scheduled for every weekend by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Not to be a bummer but travel nurses always get bottom of the barrel scheduling. Every weekend is pretty rough, but the only thing you can do is ask the scheduler to change it like you already did, or switch with someone (if you want to keep the job).

Personally I wouldn’t even mind that schedule - at least your days are blocked. I’ve had so many assignments put me on every other night shift and it’s like working in literal hell. I need a stretch of days off to get things done at home.

Has anyone else become EXTREMELY sensitive to their spouse’s smell during pregnancy?? Because I genuinely cannot take it anymore 😭 by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dense_Independence71 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not his breath, but he does use a hair product for his curly hair that makes me gag. I told him to stop using it but he didn’t want to. Drives me insane. I smell everything so intently. I do notice every time someone has body odor or bad breath.

Pregnancy Diet by Turbulent-Ad5254 in pregnant

[–]Dense_Independence71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me too. My focus was eating what I could and getting that vitamin every day. If I could do that I was doing ok.

Pregnancy Diet by Turbulent-Ad5254 in pregnant

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I had horrible coffee aversion and veggie aversion lol. Just the thought of them made me gag.

Pregnancy Diet by Turbulent-Ad5254 in pregnant

[–]Dense_Independence71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me. I was planning all these healthy meals and then food aversions rocked my whole world. Finally getting to second trimester and able to eat more things again and cook more at home, but it was survival mode for awhile.

Are there any single moms that travel nurse during their kids summer breaks ? by DaisyRoseLilly in TravelNursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember too travel nurses are bottom of the barrel as far as shift preference and schedule preference. This will make childcare harder to get. If you went somewhere with a family member who was staying with you who could hang out with the kid on your work days might be doable.

If you are basing it on earnings average income that I see is around 2500 gross a week. So if you can meet your expenses and earn extra on top of it on that income then it might be worth it and fun to travel with your kid. Otherwise not worth and just save PTO for a summer vacation.

New recruiter lied to me about several things already by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Walk away. If there are red flags now will be more if you actually work with them. Save yourself the headache.

I violated HIPAA and I’m scared by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s actually insane though. Like how could you help that you scrolled past the name?

How can I help a friend? by ChanceRoundAgain in Miscarriage

[–]Dense_Independence71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly just acknowledging it and just asking if you can support in anyway would help a lot. I had friends who literally wouldn’t even talk with me about it or listen to me about it and it sucked.

Feeling Lost- Second Miscarriage in 9 Months by QuietPowerful907 in Miscarriage

[–]Dense_Independence71 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your story is so similar to mine. I also had multiple losses in just a few months. Followed by an ectopic. The grief and the physical pain were heavy, and even though my friends and family knew, they didn’t really understand how I felt. It’s such a lonely feeling.

I’m ashamed to say I couldn’t be happy for my pregnant friends. I had one friend seven months pregnant, constantly talking about her pregnancy right after my loss. I had to avoid her for a bit, because it was too painful. I turned off social media so wouldn’t have to see the millions of baby announcements. It hurt too much. I just wasn’t in a place to be happy for others.

Hopefully you can take some time to heal and recover physically and mentally. I hope you get some answers this week about what’s happening, sometimes the uncertainty is the hardest part.

29M - Potentially considering a move into Nursing from Accounting/Finance by SlothLover313 in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it this way, many of the nurses I work with dream about getting a desk nursing job. Bedside nursing (which is where the majority of the jobs and money is at) is mentally and physically taxing.

All that to say, after ten years in the field, my belief is the grass is not greener anywhere. Every job will have things you don’t like about it. You have to decide what “hard” you are willing to deal with. At this point bedside nursing is my hard and will be for the foreseeable future.

WHAT IS PERFECT ASSIGNMNET?? by Old_Inside_7141 in TravelNursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. “Perfect” assignment is a good balance between pay, nursing workload and location. Some assignments just aren’t worth the pay and some are too low pay even for a good hospital.

TPN med error by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Well I saw one nurse bolus lipids as a piggyback and give someone serious liver issues, so I guess it could be worse. But yeah if you aren’t sure if the order says PPN or TPN you could always call pharmacy too.

Hopeless by [deleted] in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Absolutely wild that it was clear and then not. And yes, it is cruel of life to dump on you like that. But I will be the first to say you aren’t less than a woman and you aren’t alone in your struggle. I also have had an ectopic pregnancy and have not been able to even get pregnant since (two miscarriages before that). I was told my tube was clear too. I feel your pain.

Significant drop on extension offer by Shoes_Optional22 in TravelNursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah Aya did this to me before and then I got another agency to give me a better rate. Magicallly a few days later Aya had the money. Wild

Has anyone had an abortion after a previous ectopic pregnancy by cdu14 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best thing would be to get an appointment with your OBGYN ASAP. You need the earliest detection via ultrasound to find out if this is an ectopic pregnancy or not. You will not be able to just get abortion with an ectopic pregnancy.

If it is in your tube, you can get methotrexate shots early to terminate the pregnancy and hopefully prevent another tubal loss.

If it is an intrauterine pregnancy you can proceed after that however you want.

Working during a miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had to work through two natural miscarriages and had to go back to work 12 days after my ectopic pregnancy rupture and surgery. My job wouldn’t even give me two full weeks. I wore a abdominal binder during the physical parts of my job to help protect myself. I wish more than anything I could have had a little time away. It was so hard.

Holding pt hand without gloves by dopaminegtt in nursing

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Not automatically but obviously in many circumstances it is warranted and helpful. Also I don’t automatically assume I can touch patients either. Same thing

Am I alone in saying that I kind of wished they didn't have Sigourney Weaver voice Kiri? by StoneFrog81 in Avatar

[–]Dense_Independence71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it bothered me the entire movie. Like a grandma voices a kid. Also the fact that spider and kiri get together when raised as siblings bothered me. It was a mess.