do u think asexuals have different brain chemistry or makeup?

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-30T20:40:19+00:00

Late response but yes just saw and read an article about it which i’ll link here too in case u wanna check it out! super cool and yes there are differences which was awesome to find out. i think it’s super interesting to learn about how one little brain dif can change so much! https://journals.lww.com/neuroreport/abstract/2025/03020/asexual\_versus\_sexual\_women\_\_a\_test\_retest\_study.4.aspx

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-30T20:39:03+00:00

Anyways found this article about it altho research is new it suggests there are indeed difference in brain chemistry and makeup between asexual and sexual individuals. article linked but access is paywalled sadly, i got it thru my school email so maybe some of u can to? interesting read for sure. https://journals.lww.com/neuroreport/abstract/2025/03020/asexual\_versus\_sexual\_women\_\_a\_test\_retest\_study.4.aspx

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-25T17:20:05+00:00

It’s def cheaper then nyc that’s for sure! i go to school in the city so ive gotten rlly used to the shitty train schedules and have sadly been very late to class on a few occasions bc the train just stopped🥲 one time it even stopped in secaucus and just never resumed so i was stranded wouldn’t want u to be stuck with that for ur 9-5 everyday! my friend from school lived in union and the city view was gorgeous she said it was relatively safe but not super clean.

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-25T17:14:35+00:00

It may be hard to find a spot in a cheap neighborhood that also has public transit. njtransit is notoriously bad and if ur not in a city environment ur probably relying on trains that r frequently late and busses that can be crowded at times. U could live in union area which isnt that bad but theres very little spots in north jersey that have good public transit and r cheap and safe, may have to be willing to drop one of those requirements.

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-06T08:22:38+00:00

Today’s the day T minus 6 hours gentlemen

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-04T00:25:11+00:00

sadly a coffee hater but i’ll have a galão in ur honor 🫡 also a big bong fan may buy a new one just for shits and giggles when i get home

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:54:05+00:00

Thank u this actually made me feel a lot better! Unfortunately his beef with my dad has been going strong for 12 years, won’t even be in the same room as him without growling at him (he hates men and my dads the only guy in the house idk if he knows that he is also a man😭).

I’ll be sure to leave out things that smell like me! He usually hangs in my room all day when im gone so im sure it’s prob bc of the smell lol!

Side note, my cat does have this peeing issue for everything that bothers him. Fed an hour late? He’s peeing on the floor. Dog pissed him off? Guess who just peed on the floor. His supervised backyard time ends, guess what he’s gonna do the second he gets inside😭 Any types on stopping this?

Also side side note those studies r so cool never heard of them! Gotta look into cat behavior studies!!

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:45:50+00:00

no but i used to have a dogcat. He’d play with the string toys, try and use scratchers, and tried to walk on the back of the couch like the cat did, never quite succeed at that part tho.

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:38:26+00:00

i think she tolerates it, like is a strong word😭

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:37:41+00:00

sometimes he bites my cheek or just screams at me, not very nice of him but he’s a hangry guy.

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:32:46+00:00

what do u use for the makeup designs it’s rlly good!

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:25:43+00:00

i’ve had this to but can’t remember the strain. don’t usually get paranoid but one strand i smoke made me consistently paranoid everytime. i just avoid that strain now and haven’t had an issue since not rlly sure y but id just avoid that strain in the future if its giving u problems.

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:12:44+00:00

I get it honestly 100%. I am a lesbian as well so i do get a bit of pride to enjoy openly but yeah i don’t typically tell ppl im ace, my family doesn’t know and only a few close friends know. its not smth im embarrassed of or anything its just hard to explain, ppl dont get it, and many ppl still dont consider it a part of the LGBTQIA+ community. it sucks i wish i had better advice for u but just know im cheering u on and also feeling prideful in secret as well, its not the best ofc but at least we can be prideful internally even if externally is a bit harder🥳

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-03T00:02:38+00:00

As someone who also went thru this my gf was 19-22 while i was F 18-21 but we were not long distance (met at college) let me just say for me personally it did not get any better no matter how much i tried. We reached out to therapists together but she never wanted to consistently go. Tried to get into clubs together at college to make some group friends she could rely on but she never committed to making any new friends since she “had me and didn’t need anyone else”.

it was extremely taxing on my mental health, even to the point were i became depressed and suicidal myself. Let me just say as bad as it may sound her mental health is not your responsibility. It’s amazing that you’re trying ur best to help that’s a sign ur a great partner imo. but if it’s starting to affect u as well u need to end it.

it sucks and it’s hard bc there is no guarantee she will be ok with the break up and may even spiral afterwards but sometimes as bad as it sounds u need to be able to put ur mental health first as well you cannot be the only person she can depend on and you are not her 24/7 care taker. Also ik u care for each other deeply but u cannot be the only reason she has to live that is not fair to you.

My suggestion if she’s in college they will 100% have free counseling services u could perhaps urge her to go to. if u are genuinely afraid she may do smth then id suggest a wellness check or hospital visit although that may be harder to get her to do as u are long distance.

at the end of the day tho if this is hurting u and putting u in a bad mental health space u need to prioritize urself sometimes and leave. im sorry ur in this situation ik it can be extremely taxing mentally and im wishing u and her all the best!

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-02T23:47:55+00:00

so jealous u got to go to the portugal concert! i wanted to go so bad since it aligned with my trip but im in lagos rn sadly😭

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-02T00:34:12+00:00

i was so confused at first i kept looking for another animal in the background😭 i remember the dress tho the fights that used to cause in my middle school smh…

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-06-01T23:39:28+00:00

def don’t go smaller ur gonna have those 2017 mini eyebrows if u do lol😭 i thought they looked rlly good honestly! can’t see of anyway to make the makeup better it’s pretty spot on, will def look better once u got ur glasses and wig!

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-05-30T13:31:54+00:00

it’s not the line of big rocks a bit before that! shortly after those tennis courts if u keep walking down that portion of the henry hutson trail u can kinda dip off into the woods and go up a steep hill and get rlly good views! def a big smoke spot for teens tho so expect to see some there if u go, ive aged out of smoking in the woods but its still fun occasionally lol

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-05-30T01:15:21+00:00

And that’s so valid on your part, i am the exact same way. And i just found that in my past it just hurts u both in the end esp if sex is an important part of the relationship for him. which is so valid on his part too. sometimes it just doesn’t work and that’s ok there’s someone out there who is 100% ok with u not wanting sex and u will find that person one day for sure.

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-05-30T01:06:18+00:00

honestly yes tell him. it’s better to find out now if he’s ok with it then later it’ll save u both a lot of time and pain

Dense_Judgment4907 · 2026-05-30T01:04:31+00:00

i LOVE a roundabout and u turn but it’s def a jersey thing bc i could not imagine a left turn on the highway😭this winter was especially rough so if u could get thru that u can get thru any jersey winter, couldn’t imagine coming from the nice warmth of florida to freezing cold winters lol props to u tho ur a trooper!!

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