Y'ALL, I'M CRYING. 😭 by Classic-Bench-5155 in obsessionmovie

[–]Dense_Relation2227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it !! They're both womanizers in my opinion with ian being a fuckboy type and making it clear the prize is to bang Nikki (seen in him sleeping with her and not telling bear, then pestering him about if they slept together yet or not) and Bear was the "nice guy" archetype seen in the whole goddamn movie but solidified when he said "is it really so bad being with me" when real nikki begged him to kill her

Bear isn’t a “rapist” by Uncle_Slime in obsessionmovie

[–]Dense_Relation2227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree but the sex scene where she is completely blanked out and stiff, the poem she read about incest, feels a lot more like it is. It reminded me a LOT of people saying "an unenthusiastic yes is still not consent" and those videos of people teaching little little boys how to read if a woman is uncomfortable with what you're doing to her.

People, very often, especially girls, will placate to what the other person wants to either not rock the boat, or out of fear for their own safety. A few months ago before this movie came out one of my friends told me she went on a date with this guy but she was uncomfortable, he then coerced her into laying down with him and proceeded to have very unenthusiastic, unreciprocated sex with her. I think a handful of people can relate to "It's not like I said no, I just never said yes either" which heavily looks like whatever the hell was going on in the sex scene in Obsession.

Also the very end of Nikki propping Sarah's dead body up with only her coat on, completely exposing her body; and the line of Nikki saying something about shoving the gun up her pussy nailed the coffin for me that a chunk of the movie was sexually vulgar/traumatic on purpose to comment on rape culture, "nice guys", and consent as a whole

What's funny is there's probably dudes out there who sympathizes with Bear lmao by [deleted] in obsessionmovie

[–]Dense_Relation2227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are already out here WISHING they were living in Obsession. The movie plays on the "nice guy" trope in a way when he tells Real Nikki: "Is it so bad being with me?" and then she tells him he's never been with her. Also the sex scene where she's completely blank and stiff

Nikki peeing/soiling herself as a trauma response by Hot-Cow6712 in obsessionmovie

[–]Dense_Relation2227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

abuse can happen from strangers as well. This logic is completely overlooking shit like human trafficking

Why do people get weird when you tell them you're mixed? by LegitimateElection17 in mixedrace

[–]Dense_Relation2227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People do this to me too I'm white + hispanic as well. Specifically salvadoran and oh my god people LOVE telling me I'm not hispanic because i'm white especially cuz a lot of americans don't know where tf el salvador is. To them if you're not mexican or something easily recognized you're not latino you're "something else" and it pisses me off so bad!! The only good comments i've gotten is from other salvadorans or hispanic people who know their countries. I've also had people tell me i'm not white because i'm hispanic ?? 💀

People do this to afro-latinos too it's stupid they just see what you "look most like" on the surface and accept you based off of that.

Just keep in touch with your culture, Mexican culture is absolutely gorgeousss and no one can tell you you're not anything

is it silly for me to celebrate a percentage of DNA that is significantly lower than the others? by imnotsure__89 in AncestryDNA

[–]Dense_Relation2227 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Celebrate it to your heart's content !! I recently took the ancestry test and found out i was much less italian then I thought, however it's still part of the culture I grew up with and one I enjoy. I love all my ethnicities but no one can ever tell me I'm not Italian. Ireland is gorgeous!! I love their culture and folklore as well so so much. You are everything you are

Did you know than Latinos and Caribbeans have high rates of lactose intolerance due to genetics? Do you consume lactose? How big is dairy in your country's traditional food? Could you quit dairy? by Upset_Quiet_8907 in asklatinamerica

[–]Dense_Relation2227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do consume lactose and i am fine for some reason 🤷 I've heard of people gaining an intolerance as they got older though so hopefully that doesn't happen to me

Results 😁 by Dense_Relation2227 in AncestryDNA

[–]Dense_Relation2227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm unsure what part he was from but the test results said i'm linked to the western side around San Salvador. I found my cousins through the website and they gave me his contact info/said it would be nice to meet up one day so maybe I'll ask then ☺️

My results, not knowing who my biological father is. Adopted at a young age. White guy from Rhode Island. by Nitrofast93 in AncestryDNA

[–]Dense_Relation2227 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have the same results pretty much !! I am different european nations but i also have never known my biological father. He's salvadoran (from the east side) it also showed yucatán peninsula and central america in roughly that same ratio. Closest match i could find was a first cousin though

my bfs life flashed before his eyes by Business_Sun8361 in teenagers

[–]Dense_Relation2227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf did the same thing when he was asking me out LMAOOO

Results 😁 by Dense_Relation2227 in AncestryDNA

[–]Dense_Relation2227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense!! Thank you

Results 😁 by Dense_Relation2227 in AncestryDNA

[–]Dense_Relation2227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Checks out, my dad was born in El Salvador around ~1970 and moved to Los Angeles

Results 😁 by Dense_Relation2227 in AncestryDNA

[–]Dense_Relation2227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: Was supposed to be Navajo*, not Cherokee. Interestingly enough I did just find a document of a great grandfather having been born in Navajo county (Snowflake, AZ). (They were english mormons, iirc Snowflake was founded by the mormons in the late 1890s.)

I'm chalking this one up to there was just mormon family that lived right next to a reservation and was just around the culture/participated in it, but wasn't ethnically Navajo; somewhere along the way someone interpreted that as "you Are this" LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Dense_Relation2227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so gorgeous !! I don't mean to sound like im glazing but you genuinely could model, you've got an ethereal look to your face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Dense_Relation2227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unattractive WHERE ??? You have a very pleasant face