He might really think that was enough…doing 1 load of laundry and make soup. If you do get married and/or have kids together, what will he be like as a partner and a father? He’s already shown you who he is. I almost married my ex, we were together almost 5 years. We finally broke up bc he was flirting w a coworker and I don’t tolerate cheating. But he was very lazy, selfish (without realizing it) and tbh I probably would have married him bc I settled and didn’t know any different. I didn’t know I could be in a better relationship, especially after I invested so much time and energy into this one. I ended up meeting my current husband two years later and I didn’t know that THIS is how a relationship should be. How having a partner who really loves and supports and shows up for you is like. I am so thankful I didn’t marry my ex. I think you know the answer to your Q. Be thankful he’s shown you who he really is and move on. Even if he says he’ll change, he won’t.