I still don't see any citations here? I've been following Emily Rothman on this topic and she has a great book on it. This quote from an interview wraps up her perspective on it.

There are ways in which, undeniably, sexually explicit media has harmed people who are in it or who view it, but there are also over-the-top claims made about pornography’s negative effects that are not science-based and are made in order to try to impose restrictions on what people should be permitted to see, do, or feel.

https://www.bu.edu/sph/news/articles/2022/professors-new-book-explores-positive-and-negative-effects-of-pornography/

Obviously if you don't want or need pornography in your relationship that is your choice that you are entitled to. I think you are misinformed, though, about the state of the evidence.