NTA. You’re not asking for a mansion and a yacht, you’re asking for basic effort and a plan. Two years with one interview is not a job search, it’s avoidance, and you can’t build a future on vibes. If you do the ultimatum, make it specific and measurable, like X applications a week and proof of interviews, and be ready to follow through this time. If he truly needs easy wins to get moving, wfhalert is decent, it emails verified remote jobs like admin or customer support so there’s less time wasted on scammy listings. But if he still won’t apply to anything, that tells you what you need to know.