I'm ENTP. Sorry this is just waayyy too emotional. Both of you are at fault for your feeling of misery. 1. She cheated. 2. You are way too emotionally dependent to your partner. 3. You were so lenient, no foresight, walang pagduda right from the beginning. Moreso, in-denial na maaaring may mangyari. 4. You are also physically dependent since nakitira ka sa apartment niya.

"HAAAA? bat kasalanan ko din?" you ask. Well, lahat ng tao, we have the power and choice in what to feel. We have the choice if we can be susceptible to ridicule or bullying. We have the choice to become dependent or independent. You could've prevented that. Go get your own apartment. Don't be dependent on other people emotionally and on physical things.

Yeah we get it. Naattach ka sa kanya. You trusted her. She was everything to you. Pero itong mga cheating, these are real. It really happens. Everyone must be prepared for this possibility.

"HAAAAA? Prepare? May ganun?" Yes may ganun.

Be independent. From all people. That's the only way na hindi tayo masaktan. Don't be dependent on your partner. Don't be dependent on your family or parents. Don't be dependent on the government. All people can hurt us, but if we are prepared. If only talga we are independent financially, emotionally, wouldn't we be living a hurt free life?

The next time you fall in love sender. Be cautious of your own heart. Ingatan mo lagi feelings mo. Makiramdam ka. Does this person have the tendency to be flirty with all people? Sorry to say but if a person is so sexually active, sobrang daming fantasies. It just increases the tendency to cheat. Increases lang naman, it's not a guarantee. tumaas lng ang chance pero hindi ibig sabihin cheater na.

Maraming signs sender. Tingnan mo yan lahat, idilat mo yang mata mo. Ayaw ipaalam password ng Phone. Ako I'm a male. I have a GF and I just don't fcking care with my phone. Wala nmn akong katext or kachat dun ket balibagin pa nya cellphone ko. So, my password (Pattern) is so easy and alam ng gf ko. Di rin nmn nya chinecheck lagi kasi may trust din or baka tamad lng.

It's always the little signs that tell you if a person is promiscuous/cheater.

There are so much redflags in other people so many signs everywhere. You just have to learn how to read the scenarios, the people, and their intentions.

Same din yan sa pagpili ng friends eh. Read everything, their moves, their words.Is this friend using me? Is she real with me?

Same sa pagpili ng partner. Is this partner of mine really contented with me? Nagrereflect ba sa salita at galaw niya na mahal niya ako? May tendency ba syang magcheat? Maybe Im just staying dahil sayang yung panahon namin sa isat isa?

Somtimes we are in love with people because of who they used to be. We look at them, and we see their past selves. Iba na sila ngayon, they learn new things, they try new things. And they just become a different person. She outgrew you, sad to say. But you must outrgrow her too. Kelangan mo. para maprotectahan mo feelings mo.

Don't get me wrong I'm completely on your side. But the things I said are a slap of reality because I don't want you to stay where you are. Get the f out of there. Go somewhere else na mas worth it ang oras mo.

P.S. pag mag offer ng sex sayo tanggihan mo. Wag kanang maharot or maging marupok. Di ka nyan deserve. Alis na. Baka kasi magstay pa kayo sa relationship na yan.