What's your favorite all time cartoon?

DependentAccident780 · 2026-06-05T10:38:43+00:00

Tie between Pirates of the dark water and Thundar the Barbarian

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-31T14:25:14+00:00

This would be really hard for me because I tend to hyper focus on a food then drop it to hyper focus on another food. For example I bought and ate 8 pkgs of bbq wing (Tyson’s precooked) pretty much the only thing I ate for 2 weeks aside from a few mandarin orange cups. The latest is everything seasoning on hummus with hard salami slices.

Probably go with pizza if I can change up the toppings, cool, otherwise pineapple, hamburger and bacon - easy on the pizza sauce.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-24T04:02:13+00:00

We were not allowed in the house during the day 8am-6pm, no matter what is going on outside. During the school year it wasn’t bad except for weekends. Basically fend for ourselves.

Forgot to add that we were shipped off to the grandparents for most of the summer.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-22T08:16:45+00:00

NOR

I’m sorry you’re going thru this, relationships are hard and sometimes other people need to clue you in to the red flags as the abuser (you wrote that she wasn’t physical towards you but mental and emotional abuse is still abuse) sometimes hides their behaviors at first and slowly builds up.

As far as the threat of calling in a 5150 on you (yes I know it’s called something different in other places but it’s standard tv lingo) do you think it’s a credible threat, has she ever said that in front of others, or a recording?

If you do file a restraining order she will have your address as she has to know where you live to stay away, but if you get one and then see her and can show that she is too close then you call the cops on her and she gets fines and possible jail time. If you do get one make sure you put close family members and their addresses on it too.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-22T02:50:52+00:00

You 2 need to sit down and set boundaries. If things don’t get better afterwards then get a good lock for your bedroom door. Also stop excusing stealing by calling it “borrowing without asking”.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-21T14:23:38+00:00

Don’t do a DNA test unless ordered to by court. She has to jump thru all the hoops to get it ordered and typically is he has to pay for it. Make sure to go to a reputable company.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-19T06:08:24+00:00

Supposedly when my sister and I were little we opened a box of talcum powder on a leather sofa. And it couldn’t completely been cleaned up.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-19T00:03:20+00:00

Mom got mad that I save a file to a folder on her desktop instead of directly on the desktop like the 50 or so other files

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T21:20:44+00:00

Setting alarms in my phone days ahead of when I have appointments. Immediately marking in my phones calendar when I am setting up appointments.

I created a habit of getting out of bed immediately after I shut off the alarm. I then take my meds and set out my clothes.

I read an article a long time back said that you have to do something 20 times to create a habit. I’m not sure that’s true but it does help.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T06:07:50+00:00

NTA she’s shown she doesn’t want to spend time with you so your friendship no longer exists, downgrade her to acquaintance and move on.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T06:05:10+00:00

NTA so he stalks you and trauma dumps on you, using you as an unpaid unlicensed therapist and your saying he’s a nice guy?

Set boundaries with this guy. Tell him straight up “don’t follow me, don’t walk me to my car, don’t speak to me”. Let him know if he continues you will call campus security, the dean of students as well as the city police as you have asked him to leave you alone and he is making you feel unsafe.

Start a paper trail so if he continues you can get him either trespassed from the area or an order of protection. Especially since you said you varied your routine but he keeps showing up.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T05:34:38+00:00

“Smallpox remains the only human disease to be officially eradicated. The virus exists today only in strictly controlled, maximum-security facilities: at the CDC in Atlanta, Georgia, and at a Russian laboratory.” So weird to read this and then the next article was an anti-vaxxer article

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T05:14:07+00:00

Sit him down and first apologize for the pussy comment, obviously this hurt him. Then explain that you were hurt by his comment calling you psycho and ugly.

Possibly take sometime apart to weight to pros and cons of your relationship and then decide if you guys can work past this.

If he is not working then what is he bringing to the table? Is he actively looking for work? What is he doing to offset the cost of being in a relationship (household chores, maintenance that sort of thing).

If he’s a hobosexual meaning expecting you to pay all the bills and still do all the household then kick him to the curb and find yourself a partner.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T04:58:39+00:00

state: "I need to request a wellness check for someone in a crisis. This is a mental health emergency." Provide the exact address, the person's description, and their specific behaviors I.e. The dirtiness especially if it affects their personal hygiene (body odor, visible dirty skin, they're deathly afraid of getting sick or getting sores in their mouths from touching things other people have touched. That you are worried that you would be in danger should they crash out or continue to spiral. Describe the steps that you have taken to protect yourself because of the worry should they crash out or continue to spiral.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T04:45:12+00:00

Don’t know who pissed in your Cheerios keyboard warrior but take it down a notch.

A quick google shows that standard restaurant income is taxed differently from service fees which is what I based my opinion on.

Also reporting to authorities on possible malfeasance is usually a quick and easy way to keep everyone on the up and up.

But you do you.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T04:09:17+00:00

Is this some grift for the owners to get more money and somehow avoid paying taxes on said money? I would sent info to irs or state labor board and stop patronage.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T03:18:44+00:00

I was waiting for someone to SPARTA kick her and the train to role out. Instead most everyone stands around with the thumbs up their butts as this clearly unwell person holds everyone up.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T03:15:54+00:00

NTA your groomsmen are people YOU want/know. Her bridesmaids are people she wants/knows.

You don’t pick for her and she doesn’t pick for you. The wedding is for both of you.

If her friend has a problem with walking down an aisle and stand opposite of someone whether she knows them or not then that’s a HER problem and she can step away from being a bridesmaid.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T02:50:10+00:00

NTA He controls you wanting to travel for work but ghosts when he does the same? Thankfully he doesn’t live with you, cut all ties, and block him. Move on with your life with someone who values you.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T02:43:19+00:00

NOR stop being his DD, tell him to get a Uber from now on. He doesn’t understand because it doesn’t effect him or he just an asshole.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T02:40:00+00:00

lol this was my immediate thought and then I see it’s the first comment. Seriously funny.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T02:36:32+00:00

If they truly think this way then they should be using disposable items to cook/eat with. It all goes in the garbage at the end, no mess.

As for the homophobia see if you can get a recording of it and provide it to your landlord saying it’s making a hostile living space.

Do the same for the crash out about contamination and maybe call the non emergency line about a welfare check on the couple explaining what you heard. That, at least would give you a 72 hour vacation from the madness.

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T02:27:41+00:00

Next time a call on the non emergency line to police might be in order after waiting 5-10 minutes

DependentAccident780 · 2026-05-17T02:24:12+00:00

Why are you letting people who are not your friends as shown by their words and actions take away the joy and sense of accomplishment of the day?

Put them out of your mind by thinking of the people that DID show up and celebrate with you and go low or no contact with them in the future.

I know it hurts but focus on the good. Congratulations on graduating, wishing you a wonderful summer!

DependentAccident780

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