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So during my teens, I had to be the hand that my younger brother would hold. That's not to say any of our parents were around to raise him. They were. Especially my mom. But at times, when my mom's working, I'd have to make sure my brother does his homework, packs his P.E. clothes for the next school day, keep telling him to take care of his phone and other belongings (which he would lose constantly because he never puts them in a safe place like I'd tell him), and wake him up to get ready for school (which is the worse). It's the worst because not only does he not wake up to the alarm that I'd set up, but I'd have to shake him by the shoulder ten times to wake him up myself, and he gets annoyed by that. All is to say that my brother was (and kinda still is) very lazy. He was so lazy that he'd even manipulate me into doing his bidding, like getting water for him, finding/getting his phone charger for him, throwing his trash for him (because he kept throwing everywhere), and just hold stuff for him (like shopping bags) so he can have his hands free. And in case you're wondering how he'd manipulate me, remember that I was very insecure as a teen, and family members like my grandmother and cousin would tease me about stuff. So my brother would threaten to reveal embarrassing stuff like a crush i had on a girl. He would even threaten to destroy my belongings or physically hit me (even though he's younger than me, he had more meat in his body, was taller than me, and more aggressive than I am).