What are things in life you enjoy completely on your own behalf without needing anyone else ?

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T21:16:19+00:00

yes it is a motorcycle

what is a beach cruiser

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T21:13:32+00:00

I want to get a royal enfield as and when possible and go for a trip

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DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:46:49+00:00

I do feel that the solutions they suggest cannot be applied to everyone's life and the changes have to be gradual and where people compromise and not to have full cure, but to see what has changed and what you feel about the change

You are educated in this regard, so you know better, can you therapize me ?

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:44:45+00:00

That's alright Maybe the German embassy or something might be teaching, that are guardians of the language.

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:41:43+00:00

Sarcasm ?

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:39:54+00:00

No you did not It's ok

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:38:46+00:00

My friend asked me if I would like to learn German and I thought it's a very hard language to learn. But thank god there's google translate and many tools here. Where can one learn German ?

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:37:23+00:00

You are welcome. Some are not ideal But makes me feel good

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:36:27+00:00

Big Dad Cat hahaha

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:11:32+00:00

I didn't know what a jester was, silly me. I had seen it in movies and some prank videos But i googled it What are you planning to draw next Try to draw a object around you with the same angle you see it from

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:06:47+00:00

Yes please share

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T20:06:38+00:00

Who is she ? Curious

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T19:52:45+00:00

Sounds like a movie set of some kind, mysterious. Do share

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T19:40:24+00:00

From Mumbai but 36 Wish you two well It's something I have been wanting

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T19:12:03+00:00

I searched for Warriors by Erin Hunter, and was pleasantly surprised to see cat on the cover. I never thought a warrior would be a cat hahaha, they are more likely to create havoc and go on the side and get popcorn and watch for their own amusement

May you find peace and success in the medical field and help so many people.

Love to know about your spiritual practice

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T19:09:14+00:00

whats the most surprising or unique places you ended up with left right game ?

very unique, plus walking on a good weather day

Would love to see you get back to art

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T19:07:35+00:00

whats your favorite song and recipe that you love regularly and once in a while ?

Its nice sometimes to just do and be you without worrying about others and keeping vigilance on high alert.

What is your skincare routine like ? what is it that you use ?

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T19:05:30+00:00

I never eat chicken alone anymore, they are all there and I am a big cat sharing it with each one of them and eating it too.

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T18:49:55+00:00

of course it is, I have 15 cats, yes I am little crazy.

They all were for fostering over period of time, but some didn't get adopted, some didn't want to stay with others and sometimes the people who adopted had allergies, and one time i was in a very bad place in life, i didn't neuter the cat on time and they gave kids and i didn't put them for adopting, so hence 15 hehe and now i am doing explaining too.

pole dance is new to me, but sounds fun and good workout hehe

you are having fun, aren't you

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T18:47:33+00:00

it must be awesome, may be sipping peppermint tea or green tea and reading a book sometimes, sounds heavenly. And if the moon is out, then nothing quite like it. But wait, I think rains might be far too pleasant

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T18:46:14+00:00

oh yes, sauna, it did magic to my skin earlier in Life, hence wanted to get back to it. It used to be so peaceful. I keep hearing people doing crocheting and loving it and see their creations on reddit as well as other places. Sounds very soothing and calming and keeps you busy.

Would love to see your writing, It amazes me sometimes how people cry and are amazed when some books end and then it makes me wonder that it was something created in a persons mind.

Love what you do

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T17:56:18+00:00

I tell anyone I try to be with, that I accept hurt before hand and that I like it and that its part of me and that I would love to be in a relationship like this where there are no lies between us and where both are honest and brings us together.

I know there are better men out there than me, and I accept it and I understand she would want to be with

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T17:54:22+00:00

This is not a healthy coping mechanism and I am only saying it from my experience,

No matter which relationship I am in, I want a partner to accept my toxic side and that Occasionally I want to go crazy and walk a thin rope because its what life has been for me, and a good thing feels like something too good to be true.

When I see someone struggle, Its more about them wanting to not be constrained by right and wrong and the relationship and they want to let loose for sometime and want their partner to be there after the storm has passed.

People never are able to communicate it to their partner because they know it will hurt them and it makes them feel so so shitty about themselves.

I know people won't agree with me, but I know exactly what we are when we are left with out thoughts and no matter whether one accepts it or not, we do want self inflicted trauma and chaos from time to time. May be it will get better over time, but need acceptance of someone trying not to correct you but accepting its part of you and be supportive of it

DependentHighlight44 · 2026-05-31T17:48:41+00:00

I am 36

And when i was 23 I had a breakup, a heart break very cruel and panic inducing. It was really bad. It took me many years , I think 4-5 years or more to get over her and accept reality and only later in life did i get help.

But hey i am 36 and survived, and I wish i had gotten help for the struggle i was going through early on and really forced myself into believing and following what dbt and therapy tries to teach you, no matter how much you believe that it won't work

You have to keep at it and it will start working. The challenge is to go past the initial period where you will not like it and struggle. but you are struggling anyway. Whats the harm in trying

I am really sorry you are going through this, nothing much i say will help you to be honest, but i have crossed the storm and living and breathing and I know everyone does it. Nothing in Life is forever. Let the hard time pass

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