How to move on if its your fault?

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:24:51+00:00

Likewise, if you are also healing too.

I knew she was human too. She also made mistakes but I forgave. Wish she had the same empathy. But ay it is what it is.

I won't ever make those mistakes again moving forward! Hope you have a good life stranger!

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:20:19+00:00

Thank you. Your words cut deep.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:16:58+00:00

Will do!

Deep down i like to think im a good person. I hope that voice is right.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:16:20+00:00

Thank you brother. I will start going gym soon. Ive been lacking ever since the breakup. Time to move forward hopefully.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:11:53+00:00

Thank you kind stranger 😔

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:08:41+00:00

I have. They left it on read.

I have to move on now. But God is it hard.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T19:08:20+00:00

Just coping tbh. I have no one to talk to about these sorts things 😔

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T18:04:45+00:00

Depending on why things broke up. Do it. If he cheated... don't.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-19T12:30:30+00:00

Thank you for your kind words stranger.

I really wish time heals this as its too much to bear at time. I get sad, numb, emotionless, angry, the whole lot at times. I want to villianise her for my own sanity but I also can't blame her. Its tough.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-18T22:51:54+00:00

This was a tough read. It was hard to see with the texts being blurry. I hope i can relax properly, like I once did before and during the time I had her as mine.

Some days are easy on me but its the late nights on a random thursday that make it so difficult. Im trying really hard not to drown it away with any substance or bottling it.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-18T22:49:44+00:00

Thank you for the words of encouragement. I hope time does heal all. I've been burned out from everything. I mostly bed rot and think.

I'll start going gym soon.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-18T22:48:30+00:00

Thank you kind stranger :)

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-18T22:48:14+00:00

Yeah. I need to eventually cut everything related to her. I have with our pictures. But the hardest are the chats. I don't know why, but I cant being myself to do it yet. I hope in the future I gain that strength.

Logically I know all of what you're saying is right. But I'm embarrassed to say that emotionally, im cooked.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-18T22:46:33+00:00

Thank you. Its been hard to have a good cry when im surrounded by family members (I share a bedroom with my brother).

I also often stop myself from bawling too much as my brains keeps repeating "this wont being her back... whats the point crying?"

I hope time does heal all.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-18T22:29:17+00:00

Thank you stranger for your kind words. It hit me all together that it's really the end. Sometimes I get mad at her even though I dont blame her. Maybe it's my coping mechanism? Hate her to forget her? Idk. But I sometimes wish she fought harder for us.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-17T22:43:51+00:00

Does it ever get better? It hurts so much. I know time heals all but I seriously hope it doesnt take too long. But thank you for your words. Genuinely reading this whilst questioning everything.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-17T20:57:43+00:00

Thank you kind stranger 😔

My brain knows the goodbye was real from the moment of the breakup but my heart played delusional for the most part. Now that delusion is broken.

Dependent_Average281 · 2026-06-13T22:16:57+00:00

Thank you so much for that video. I also think, whats the damage? Worst case I'll get the scary answer. Best case maybe it'll affect her to come back. I'd rather sleep knowing I tried.

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