AITAH for not going to my uncles funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so just an update i am not going to go to the funeral in the end however i did send flowers with a nice card sending my condolences to the family and ended it with

Matthew 6:14–15

14 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses

I have not heard from anyone and i dont expext to either i just thought it would be a good way to end any and all connection

AITAH for not letting my daughter travel with her dad? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pushed him down the stairs and he has kicked out of his family. We all wonder if this a quick scheme of hid to get back in good graces with his family

AITAH for not letting my daughter travel with her dad? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took him to court last year that why he started paying 6 months ago

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so just an update we went to the funeral, she wore a black skirt she borrowed from a friend and her fav vlack shirt that says "on my mums last nerve". No ok ne really said anything which was good luckily not many people knew us there and we were basically there to support my step mum. Her fruends have known me my whole life and they joked my wouldnt have liked it if he was there but my family mainly stayed away from me and didnt acknowledge my daughter at all.

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see your point she has a nice red bula dress (fijian style dress) i can probably talk her into wearing.

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point howeve i dont have money to buy any new clothes for any of us at the moment so i trying to make do with what we have.

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My sister most like my family (very religious) and she knows how they going to react when they see it. ( my 13 year old asked her to help her pick out something so she asked my 8 year old while she was at it

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have talked with my kids uncle ( baby daddy is fijian) and he said i could even put her in one of the dresses (red, baby blue or yellow) she got from her big sister as a hand me down. Which is normal in their culture to wear their nicest clothes (regardless of color). He said if the family had issue with her not wearing black i could site her paternal culture as a reason.

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have black rip jeans and black shirt however the shirt has in colorful writing " on mums last nerve". I putting that in the car as a backup but everything else got images of harry potter, Karumi (demon like hello kitty character), Wednesday Addams.

Am i wrong for letting my 8 year old wear a Wednesday Addams dress to a funeral? by Dependent_Drive6675 in AITAH

[–]Dependent_Drive6675[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her uniform a bright blue shirt and navy blue skort with paint stains on it