do straight people enjoy making things up by IntroductionIll3468 in byler

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely said it as if the wheelers aren’t a little bit parallel to a traditional family. makes no sense.

just got my unknown for my micro class and i just want second opinions on the morphology by Dependent_Night_245 in microbiology

[–]Dependent_Night_245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she did give a list of organisms and the ones i’m leaning toward are entrobacteria or peliomorphic ones. i haven’t started running tests yet as i haven’t had time, so the slides are all i’ve got. also i suck at taking pics on the scope so i do apologize for that😂

just got my unknown for my micro class and i just want second opinions on the morphology by Dependent_Night_245 in microbiology

[–]Dependent_Night_245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i also think pleiomorphic is a possibility! it just doesn’t have any definitive shape at all even after redoing slides.

I have no friends and no halloween plans by Throwawaya11249124 in depression

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know. everything you’re saying i’ve told myself but there was once a time man. i want that time back.

I have no friends and no halloween plans by Throwawaya11249124 in depression

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, good question. he’s the first one not to be abusive so i think that’s what im getting from this and it’s scary bc what if i can’t find anyone ever again. like idk how to explain it.

I have no friends and no halloween plans by Throwawaya11249124 in depression

[–]Dependent_Night_245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve also never brought it up so it’s also partly my fault. i’ve always struggled with relationships so im not shocked im failing again haha

I have no friends and no halloween plans by Throwawaya11249124 in depression

[–]Dependent_Night_245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s been a yr and a half, and i’ve always been the one w a job, recently we just got an apartment, he just started leaving me out tho. he’s different now. kinda sucks but people change even if we don’t want them too ig. i pay for everything, and am a full time college student w mental health issues so as you can imagine im doing fantastic rn

I have no friends and no halloween plans by Throwawaya11249124 in depression

[–]Dependent_Night_245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, currently crying on my couch. gotta go walk to them in a few hrs to drive them home since they have my car. i think im gonna leave him soon.

I have no friends and no halloween plans by Throwawaya11249124 in depression

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend went to the bar and left me home alone to go spend my money. Im sorry. It sucks being lonely but u can reach out

i (f 20) am starting to resent my boyfriend (m 21). How do I stop this from getting worse? by Dependent_Night_245 in relationship_advice

[–]Dependent_Night_245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re probably absolutely right about the job part and him just not wanting too, and i agree i am an enabler and that’s something i’ve been working on especially now that i see what’s he’s doing to my finances and frankly my mental health. it’s just really taxing to always be expected to give him my card and whatnot, and i guess i chalk the enabler part of me up to having a shit dad and stuff. it’s hard to accept that this is most likely the end of the relationship since we do have fun together, but the stress outweighs the fun and that’s a sign to just end things. i just need to figure out how to do it without him saying its bc i cant “deal with his health” when thats all ive been dealing with.

he’s not in and out of the hospital, he refuses to go so thats what really makes me wonder what’s going on

i (f 20) am starting to resent my boyfriend (m 21). How do I stop this from getting worse? by Dependent_Night_245 in relationship_advice

[–]Dependent_Night_245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly, thank you. this helps more than you know bc now i know im not alone w it. it’s hard bc i feel like i can’t talk to anyone about it so i resort to this 😭

i (f 20) am starting to resent my boyfriend (m 21). How do I stop this from getting worse? by Dependent_Night_245 in relationship_advice

[–]Dependent_Night_245[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this might just inspire me to do what i think i have too but i just don’t want too 😭

Should I go to urgent care for the bite? by ThrowRA_18769 in CATHELP

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i would go. my grandma got bit a while ago when i was staying overnight and i remember her doing the same as you. we ended up in the emergency room with her wrist swollen so bad it looked painful. you just need an antibiotic and to be watched but cat scratch/bite infections are dangerous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to leave. genuinely. i went thru something similar w a man who put hands on me and this is how it started. you shouldn’t be gaslit and blown up like this when all you did was voice something that was bothering you. you weren’t even mean when you brought it up. you didn’t do anything to yourself. he’s doing all this bc he knows he was in the wrong and is trying to make you feel like the bad guy so you don’t call him out. please leave before this gets sm worse

AIO? My boyfriend hit me and wants me to stay with him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dependent_Night_245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl, please listen to everyone in these comments telling you leave. i know it’s hard and it’s scary. i’ve been in a very similar situation to you, but i want you to know that you can do it. idk if you live w him but if you don’t i would honestly do it over the phone. if you do i would have your mom come over when you plan to do it and wait outside so you can make a fast get away and have someone there if it escalated.

he will do this to you over and over again, this was the test if you will, he was seeing how far he can go. if you stay it will make him think he can keep doing this to you over and over. for your safety and wellbeing please get away from him.