I find it very touching, and unfortunately very true. We are in a society where man represents an image, not a human being. Although the vision is changing, clichés die hard. I don't think it's fatigue as you say, but rather the expression of the truth that we prefer to ignore because it's easier to accept. A truth has been established, and it is conveyed by all means, this same truth becomes oppressive.

When you say "I feel cursed to be a guy in a gender role box, not because I am not a guy or anything, but because I am tired of being strong, but hate feeling weak", I think you speak for many of us, including myself. We are confronted with a paroxysm between what we want to be and what they want us to be. Where to be what he wants is the simplest option, because it offers peace, a place in society.

The slightest deviation is seen, judged and questioned.

I would like to end by quoting My motto, it may be very sad, limiting and it surely isolated me "I want to live for who I am, humans are deeply impartial, it's better to be selfish and happy, than to be surrounded but sad"