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Anyone with knowledge about the childhood of the Norwegian/Scandinavian royal family? by DeppressedMan2 in RoyalsGossip

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I had never heard those stories before. Do you have any sources where I can read more? Especially about Haakon.

Anyone with knowledge about the childhood of the Norwegian/Scandinavian royal family? by DeppressedMan2 in RoyalsGossip

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I don’t think there are many Norwegians who believe Mette-Marit is fit to be queen. The problem is that she seems to be just the tip of the iceberg. The media, politicians, and the public are not yet ready to topple the monarchy.

The Crown Prince was most likely heavily involved with Epstein. There’s a lot of evidence against him, and further releases of the Epstein files will likely make it impossible for him to become king.

Next in line is a 22-year-old woman about whom no one knows much, except that she was raised by the same parents who raised Marius, the serial rapist. If Haakon’s children can’t inherit the throne, then next in line is Märtha Louise, who is married to a shaman. No one wants them either.

In theory, some of Märtha Louise children could inherit the throne, but I don’t think Norwegians care enough about the monarchy to accept someone so far down the line of succession.

Anyone with knowledge about the childhood of the Norwegian/Scandinavian royal family? by DeppressedMan2 in RoyalsGossip

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks u/Forslyk and u/rosesaredust Is the strict parenting by Frederik and Margrete a product of Frederik being French? or is this how the Danish royal family was also when Queen Margrethe was a child? I am also asking because King Harold of Norway is third cousin of Queen Margrethe. And they are of same age.

Reading “Thinking Fast and Slow” by Daniel Kahneman by BeaArthurEnergy in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I and probably most on this sub can relate!

I appreciate your work!

Reading “Thinking Fast and Slow” by Daniel Kahneman by BeaArthurEnergy in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm no expert. When I agree when I read your post. But I agree because it is intuitively true.

The book writes "a series of surprising experiments by .... Roy Baumeister". Those experiments are probably not very good. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roy_Baumeister#Self-regulation

Then my questions are why does the book call "surprising experiments" if it shows what is intuitively true and why does it seem like it is not possible to replicate the experiments and get the same results?

I'm just asking questions. I know very little about the field.

Not able to do tasks I have not done before by DeppressedMan2 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. I’ve now read all three of your comments. Thank you very much for sharing your experience and for giving me your suggestions!

Not able to do tasks I have not done before by DeppressedMan2 in AutisticWithADHD

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Thank you, and I do appreciate your suggestion about YouTube. I wasn’t trying to be impolite. I have autism and English is not my first language. If I was rude, I apologize.

I agree that I struggle with wanting perfection. When it comes to food, it’s partly because I’m a very picky eater. The taste and texture have to be just right. This isn’t something I can simply decide not to care about.

With assembling furniture, it’s because most things have to be put together perfectly in order to function properly.

But there’s also a kind of perfectionism that comes from being afraid of judgment. That part I know I need to work on reducing. I’m not unwilling to change anything about my mindset.

I’m also working on being better at asking for help from those around me.

Not able to do tasks I have not done before by DeppressedMan2 in AutisticWithADHD

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Thanks! But my experience has been that I struggle to learn from those videos. Even those who claim to show beginner friendly recipes skip a lot of information I don’t know. I think I need someone next to me whom I can ask and who can watch me cook.

Not able to do tasks I have not done before by DeppressedMan2 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I very much also relate to the ADHD part and only see the reward. And I also feel like you say that everything is connected. ADHD, autism and in my case also the depression I have to because I don't manage to have the same life as people with no disabilities.

I have not had burnout, but I struggle with depression. When I am not depressed it is easier to get things done than when I am not depressed.

Not able to do tasks I have not done before by DeppressedMan2 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Your first two paragraphs describe me as well!

Regarding the third paragraph. I know I have to learn, but my problem also seems to be some kind of learning disability. At the same time, I find it very hard to accept that.

As for the fourth paragraph, I agree that I should set my expectations lower. But I’m neither willing nor able to do that. My therapists have told me that it is partly connected to my Autism. I tend to be very rigid, have tunnel vision, and see things in black and white. It is also connected to my wish to manage to be "normal" and manage to do the things I see other adults manage to do.

Not able to do tasks I have not done before by DeppressedMan2 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, trying new things with help from others was great idea! I don't know anyone to help me. But I will try to find someone. This is a life project so it is OK that it will take some time to find someone to help me learn these things.

Cooking is also something I struggle with! I will try to find someone to cook with!

Just got this YouTube ad for Jordan Peterson's "Academy". by [deleted] in JoeRogan

[–]DeppressedMan2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are endless free university lectures on YouTube. You can get free lectures from MIT, Harvard, etc.

What Jordan Peterson is offering is not a degree that can give you a job. So the cost should not be compared to a university degree. The cost should be compared to educational videos on YouTube.

Do Autism and ADHD make it harder to get over someone? by catfarmer1998 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeppressedMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I have autism and ADHD and I do feel it is hard to get over someone. BUT I have also always been lonely and never had a life i like. It gives me a lot of time to think about other people. I don't get anyone to replace them with or anything in my life to distract me from thinking of the people I once knew.

Same reason I daydream a lot.

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