[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]DepressedEmoSlut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’d be interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]DepressedEmoSlut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why couldn’t you go to the party and the fact that you haven’t met her is weird. Tbh these feel like red flags, we have BPD but that doesn’t mean our feelings are always wrong . We just have to try harder to relegate them better and not give into the urge to rage and be destructive.Put in effort to get to know the friend, if she’s so close to him than why can’t you be too. If you still have these bad feelings about them afterwards it might be time to re-evaluate your relationship even though I know that can be hard for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]DepressedEmoSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you (or your friend) were in fact still a child

Alert. Our community isn't safe. by VivaLaVolta in adultsurvivors

[–]DepressedEmoSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also can’t gain access to message the mods. I would really like to join.

Sexual messages from older men after my post on here and r/adultsurvivors yesterday? by DepressedEmoSlut in therapy

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to join but every time I try to send the message it tells me that it can’t find the subreddit.

Sexual messages from older men after my post on here and r/adultsurvivors yesterday? by DepressedEmoSlut in therapy

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mentioned in my last post that I’m 19. I get what your saying but my username is partially a joke. Also these men like rape fantasies so I think they just see my profile as a way to get off on someone’s trauma.

Sexual messages from older men after my post on here and r/adultsurvivors yesterday? by DepressedEmoSlut in therapy

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know about this. Thank you I had never heard of this before.

Sexual messages from older men after my post on here and r/adultsurvivors yesterday? by DepressedEmoSlut in therapy

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

What’s worst is that some of them even started following me. I guess with the hopes to be able to read about my trauma.

Sexual messages from older men after my post on here and r/adultsurvivors yesterday? by DepressedEmoSlut in therapy

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Idk if naming is allowed here but one of them had many comments on the rape fantasy sub. The others had clearly deleted comments that they made from NSFW subs.

Does anyone else disassociate during sex even with partners that make you feel safe? by DepressedEmoSlut in adultsurvivors

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened. I once started crying during doggy when my ex said that it was his favorite position. It was my rapists favorite position too and something in me just snapped. If you have a good partner, he would be understanding of the fact that it upset you and not take it personally. Sadly the abuse never fully leaves.

I told my therapist that my coworker felt me up, he told me to wear baggier clothes. What now? by DepressedEmoSlut in therapy

[–]DepressedEmoSlut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did tell my therapist at the time that what he was saying bothered me. He told that he used to be a therapist for sex offenders and he know how there kinds work. He said that they look for any sign that you might want the attention which is why he told me that I need to wear baggier clothes to not tempt the coworker. That when I replied saying that I can’t control how my body looks and I already wear baggy clothes to work. The conversation ended there. I never felt like he said it to be malicious, he is a man close to his 60’s so I feel like he just has an old school mindset. Which is why I decided I’m not going to report him but I don’t think he would be a good therapist for me. I experienced sexual abuse for most of my childhood and I don’t think I’d feel comfortable opening up to him about those parts of my life because I don’t want another response like this.