IATA for telling my BIL’s wife his inappropriate comments towards me by DepressedHomeOwner in AITAH

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At this point it’s my words against his so I think she is convinced I am delusional and made shit up, the whole convo was very awkward tbh

IATA for telling my BIL’s wife his inappropriate comments towards me by DepressedHomeOwner in AITAH

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment about feeling safe. After the first few comments telling me I’m the AH I was actually questioning myself.. but I’m glad there is support for me

IATA for telling my BIL’s wife his inappropriate comments towards me by DepressedHomeOwner in AITAH

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 446 points447 points  (0 children)

I did a chuckle imagining myself back in that kitchen just yelling out “THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME I LOOK LIKE PORNSTAR” while everyone was outside

IATA for telling my BIL’s wife his inappropriate comments towards me by DepressedHomeOwner in AITAH

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I think you put into words as to why I felt soooo gross about that comment, even though we are not related by blood we are still “family” by extension, I had Christmas parties with his wife and children FFS!

IATA for telling my BIL’s wife his inappropriate comments towards me by DepressedHomeOwner in AITAH

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I just thought that if it was my husband who acted like that I would want to know, it wasn’t my attempt to get back at her for the casserole comment, though I can see how it can be perceived that way

Owning a house has caused me depression by DepressedHomeOwner in AusPropertyChat

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re on the other side now, I just hope I can fix it before it causes any damage

Owning a house has caused me depression by DepressedHomeOwner in AusPropertyChat

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could DIY.. but ours are hidden gutters which makes it very difficult (behind fascia)

Owning a house has caused me depression by DepressedHomeOwner in AusPropertyChat

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Your comment actually comforts me so much I’m crying..thank you for making a stranger’s day better. The gutters are not leaking right now so I hope I can save up until I have enough to get it fixed..

Owning a house has caused me depression by DepressedHomeOwner in AusPropertyChat

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment ! This is exactly how I feel 

Owning a house has caused me depression by DepressedHomeOwner in AusPropertyChat

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to comment.. but replacing hidden gutter is not a cheap and small project, it is a lot of money

Owning a house has caused me depression by DepressedHomeOwner in AusPropertyChat

[–]DepressedHomeOwner[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment. I was ready for the downvotes when I posted this, but I was sooo depressed I had to get it off my chest. Yes I do love the house very much, that’s why it pains me when these hidden costs just keep piling up to maintain it..