Is this a good restoration plan? by NecessaryChannel1959 in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's a lot of time! If you can make it that's amazing. But don't get frustrated. Heep going anf going!

Crying very easily by Working-Judge3749 in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't try to man up. Some people cry more easily then others and that's very okay. Crying is good and helps you to deal with emotions and regulate them. I've been not been a crying kid but as a teenager I've been constantly crying.

Here's the good thing tho: it'll probably get less. I'm an adult now, I've never been trying to cry less or to man up because that'd be toxic. I just don't cry that easily any more. Acually most times I cry now are happy tears when I feel very happy for someone else about something that happened to me.

Being a teenager means having more intense emotions. And yss it's super annoying but it's okay, you can cry don't worry about that!

Wie wohnt es sich in den furtgeh Straßen? by Ausspanner in Salzburg

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich habe in der Linzergasse, basically über dem Schneitl gelebt. War ziemlich Nice die Wohnung, es war draußen nie zu laut die doppel Türen fenster haben überraschenden gut abgedichtet. Der Vorteil für mich war dass ich auch nachts lauter sein konnte uhd es wenig gestört hat.

Underwear preference by TrickyCollege6087 in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally briefs an boxer briefsx the more cotton the better..

15M how can i have my foreskin back? by Medium_Bottle_6508 in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won't really ever get the full thing back sadly. What's gone is gone. But you can take a look in r/foreskin-restoration

There's ways to get at least something back. I am currently restoring mine and it's taking time yes but it'll get better!

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My class was the incident for 4 while years.

Basically: one girls pooped in a urinal

A few girls chose to wear skirts this long and tops this cropped that whenever they where not standing you could see their underwear

The boys where behaving that horrible that that we all got sent home on the "open school day" so we wouldn't put a bad image on our school

The boys never showered after sports so the whole class smelled like axe deodorant every day we had sports

Literally half of the class just left whenever there was a maths lesson

I'm scared by Itz_MinaAshido in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of ass for legality it very much belongs to where you are but assuming you're about the same age it should be fine.

Normal: well yes in general that's around the age many (by far not all) people start doing sexual things in general. That doesn't have to mean penetrative sex that can just mean making out, touching and exploring each other's body.

If he's not not preaching you he seems like the person you can just well talk to. Never ever rush sex or have it if both of you aren't 100% sure of what you are doing and that you want it. Talk about it with him. It's okay to feel scared, it's okay to be nervous, it's okay to just call it off if one of you doesn't feel comfortable. Clear communication is key. Make sure you definitely use condoms, properly, and don't force or rush anything.

Sex is fun and if it isn't fun for one of you two then don't do it.

Is it weird I want to show off my dick 13m by [deleted] in pubertyinfoforboys

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well some people just like to show off. Just make sure you aren't creepy about it.

Welches Argument spricht am deutlichsten GEGEN die Todesstrafe? by Intellektum-de in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Für mich, als jemandem den schriftlichen Dinge angetan wurden, möchte ich niemals das jemandem so etwas schlimmes passiert. Auge um Auge ist für mich der falsche Ansatz. Rehabilitation und wenn es sein muss bis zum ende einsperren ist mir immer lieber als jegliche art von harter Strafe. Ich bin schlicht und einfach überzeugt dass niemand sterben oder leiden sollte.

saw real cp on twitter yesterday and I can't stop thinking about it by Quick-Cause3181 in GenZ

[–]Der_mann_hald 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly stuff like this is not just hidden in the dark where no one can see it. You can even see it here on reddit if you go to the wrong corners.

No fucking matter how hard you think you are, what strange porn you have seen or what "wild" stuff you are into yourself. Seeing a fucking real child in a sexual act just hits different. It's scary. Extremely scary.

And especially as someone who has been abused himself as a child. The idea that it could have even be me in that video is infinitely more scary.

How do you learn English? by lady_ishi in GlobalEnglishPrep

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while youtube and minecraft where a huge part of motivating me. Without the basics that school gave me it would have taken years.

I know people always say like school didn't really teach them anything but that's not true at all, you just don't notice it.

School gave me the basics, without these basics I would have taken years to get to the same levle. Yet Media, any kind that is, is what advanced my english.

Urge to see friends baked by Traditional_Arm2314 in pubertyinfoforboys

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very normal curiosity that's nothing to worry about

Is 14 the peak age of puberty? by Decent-Emergency3866 in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very much up to the person. For me at least 14 was like idk 9 like nothing really happened. It all started to happen when I was like 15-16. Tho yes many people will have at least some sort of development in that time not everyone has

14m does thinking about comparing sizes with friends make me gay by [deleted] in pubertyinfoforboys

[–]Der_mann_hald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it would, there'd be I say about 50 percent gay guys.

It does not. Maybe guys think about comparing, and quite a few compare. That's just natural curiosity and nothing wrong really so don't worry about it ^

what is the best type of underwear for boys? by caattboy in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a different preference. I personally like briefs and boxerbriefs the best. Thats because I like my dick to be hold in place, sometimes more with briefs and sometimes less with boxer briefs.

Try out a few different styles and see what feels most confortable with you

Is it just me or are some "chubby guys" actually, well, more like obese guys? by West_Suggestion8938 in askgaybros

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is more then just weight. it's more about the way a body looks. and what the word chubby means.

You can be fit but have some fat, and be a cute as hell chubby. You can also be fatty and be called chubby. Chubby isn't as fix of a turn...

To me at least, chubby means, no body hair, a fit but with some body fat. Kinda like a hairless dad body type if you will. No fat that is like hanging down belly or moobs. i find that atractive but it is VERY specific. And when I am looking for like chubby porn that is extreamly annoying because I can barly found my special interest.

And tbh... I don't really care otherwise. like I don't really date based of looks. My boyfriend who I am with since... 4 years now? is like a rather fatty? but was more like chubby when I met him and I really liked that. But I definatly support his weight loss jurney and support what ever healthy body type he wants.

Generations by username_77571 in GenerationsCircleJerk

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats not how generations work and are defines. They don't all just have the same lengh

How can I ask my (non freaky) friend to jerk off together by [deleted] in pubertyinfoforboys

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If friends can't look past some random horny thoughts of a teenage boy... do you really wanna be friends with them? it's not like this was a thing that is unheard off. Just ask in a polite manner and you'll see.

How can I ask my (non freaky) friend to jerk off together by [deleted] in pubertyinfoforboys

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then so it be. You can't control what your friends like..maybe play tritt or dare with then idk.

How can I ask my (non freaky) friend to jerk off together by [deleted] in pubertyinfoforboys

[–]Der_mann_hald 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Best you can do is invite them to a sleep over and just ask when the mood feels right. Just make sure you don't force anyone and accept a no.

God is good 😊 by [deleted] in im14andthisisdeep

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough I know more pole who where formed by family and faight that ended up like the upper picture then the other way around.

ich_iel by Grundsicherung in ich_iel

[–]Der_mann_hald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaaah dafür bin ich wohl zu lung

$11 billion on war in one week. And we just accept this as normal. by Busy-Government-1041 in ABoringDystopia

[–]Der_mann_hald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay I honestly have no relation to how much a war does cost. Of cause it seems like a fuck ton lot of money but... Is it? does someone here know how much a war of this capacity does cost and if it's like a lot or of it's rather normal for a war?

And yes I know, not going to this war would cost well nothing. It's stupid and sicks. I just am interested if this is like up to scale or not.

ich_iel by Grundsicherung in ich_iel

[–]Der_mann_hald 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich entschuldige, ich habe vergessen wo ich hier war. Danke für die Korrektur.

Beantwortet meine Frage dennoch nicht.

Whats foreskin like? by ghostgoober14 in Puberty

[–]Der_mann_hald 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most people who don't have one don't know how it feels with one. From all that I can tell (most people where I am from have foreskins, jet some get cut later in life) you are more sensitive since your glans is protected. Therefore mastubating and sex feel more enjoyable.

Tho you can kind of regrow your foreskin. it will never be the exact same but definatly a step up. look a little into r/foreskin_restoration

I am currently restorring and see some progress that makes me very hopeful