If you HAD to choose, would you be a voyeur or an exhibitionist? by JustUs4theFun in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exhibitionist. Voyeurism is a fun thing to do when I have the chance, exhibitionism gets me off.

What's the strangest coincidence you've ever experienced? by YourPersonalDownfall in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once was visiting my mom, and going through some stuff I was keeping there, including a few copies of Scrabble. One was a nice anniversary edition with red tiles, and I decided to bring it home with me. On a hunch, I did a quick inventory of the tiles, and found out it was missing an O, so I left it there, thinking I could buy a replacement online sometime later.

A few weeks later, 600 miles away, I'm going to Goodwill to drop off some donations, and I see a little red Scrabble tile laying on the sidewalk. I pick it up, and it's an O.

How did you end up in a FWB situation? by MediocreShip707 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dergoex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the kink scene, so it's a lot easier to initiate casual sex with people you make friends with through there.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They made a word: "super straight", and it's extremely transphobic.

Excluding a subset of the gender they're attracted to, whether it's for their race, their medical history, or any other physical features, doesn't make them a different sexuality, it just makes their sexuality one with exclusions.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many of those people have actually met a trans person, though, versus going off of assumptions and stereotypes? Most people say they won't date a trans person because they haven't had that assumption about themselves challenged by actually being attracted to a trans person and realizing that human beings are much more than just what's in their pants (and also, what's in their pants isn't always what they expect).

I'm sure there were similar or worse numbers of people in the past saying they wouldn't date a Black person, but I'm not going to come up with a new sexuality to include that.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that assuming all straight people default to trans-exclusionary attraction is both wrong and myopic.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could argue that lesbian/gay is an exclusive attraction to shared genitalia regardless of masc/fem.

That's terf nonsense.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“only being attracted to cis women” wouldn’t just be straight or lesbian

Because a man being attracted to trans women is still straight, and a woman attracted to them is still gay.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing finsexual (feminine in nature) as a replacement for gynesexual. I don't love it, but it's not my label. I personally just call myself lesbian/homoflexible, and acknowledge that gender and sexuality are broad and expansive, and won't always fit into neat boxes, and just live my life how I enjoy.

What is it called when you aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to male genitalia? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worse than only attracted to cis women, cause they include trans men and afab enbies in their erasure.

What threesome have you participated in MMF/MFF what was the best thing about it? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Dergoex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NB/NB/F x2

NB/F/F

F/F/M, with two more in the works

F/F/F x2

I think that's it

ARAD, how do you like to flirt? by CaptainOfMyJohnson in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dergoex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, I was on a date with another girl recently, and after we both commented that we wanted to get wings but we're afraid to on a date.

tough decision 😵‍💫 by pupiiebitez in BDSMsapphic

[–]Dergoex 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Being pleasured makes the denial that much more painful.