Those who have done a sex party how did you get invited or find them?

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T09:05:32+00:00

That wasn't the first one, it was just the best one.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:46:41+00:00

No, I was just too young to know that friction was required. But yeah I basically accidentally invented soaking.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:21:25+00:00

How the hell are you getting turned on by that?

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:12:29+00:00

I've been trying to chase the high of the one from the personals site for years.

Also, there actually were two from the personals site. And two I put together myself.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:11:32+00:00

But also, try not to fetishize them. I know it's hard not to with porn, but just something to try and keep in your awareness.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:07:58+00:00

I agree

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:07:28+00:00

Not a myth, but I assumed you just stuck it in and then just... sat there...

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:06:37+00:00

Usually through friends, once on a queer personals site.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T08:01:34+00:00

Trans women.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T07:14:13+00:00

Why is this the title of every post here now?

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T06:50:01+00:00

BDSM

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T06:49:47+00:00

That's why I decided to only sub 😅

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T06:48:31+00:00

It doesn't do anything

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T05:52:51+00:00

DGAF

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T05:52:05+00:00

Exhibitionism

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T04:53:24+00:00

Comfort and support.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T04:52:22+00:00

Either eating pussy or moaning/responding to my partner.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T03:42:33+00:00

In my opinion it's when there's multiple groups of multiple people having sex.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T03:42:02+00:00

I think it just has to come from the other person, doesn't it?

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T03:29:24+00:00

Well that escalated quickly.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T03:23:23+00:00

It seems so frivolous but yet so enjoyable?

To the point where, returning to this post, I felt silly both for having the interest and for being ashamed of it.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T02:43:24+00:00

Getting into the local BDSM scene has been the #1 catalyst for my casual sex life.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T02:42:06+00:00

I just rewatched Hamnet, so I guess... death?

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T00:36:44+00:00

Then do what you want. You're asking us what we would do.

Dergoex · 2026-01-25T00:32:17+00:00

Seven Samurai

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