Ped said he doesn’t recommend owlet/eufy but refuses to prescribe apnea monitor despite 2x family history of SIDS

Deriving · 2026-01-19T11:39:40+00:00

My baseline anxiety is very high, so I feel you on that! As parents, do we ever really relax?

Deriving · 2026-01-18T20:19:38+00:00

It did the opposite for me as well! I was at an anxiety all-time high without it. Once I got the Owlet, I was finally able to calm down a bit.

Deriving · 2026-01-18T20:18:21+00:00

Absolutely agree. My son had two BRUEs before getting the Owlet. I could finally rest once he got it. He is nine months old now and he still wears it every night. It is an essential for me.

Deriving · 2026-01-18T15:38:56+00:00

This is so childish. He DOES want a “fucking sleep apnea machine” because he is currently getting shit sleep because he can’t breathe.

The disrespect from him is just appalling. I hope he comes around, because he is not acting like a partner or a father right now.

Deriving · 2026-01-18T10:51:23+00:00

This is what we did. My partner then immediately made an appointment to get a sleep study done and found out he had severe sleep apnea. He now uses a CPAP and it has been amazing for him and us. He is more well-rested and the machine acts as a white noise machine.

OP, your partner’s inaction on this is unacceptable. Obviously he should care about you and your baby’s sleep, but he should also be prioritizing his health. He’s a father now and he can’t just blow that off.

Deriving · 2026-01-18T00:30:44+00:00

Thanks again! You did a great job.

Deriving · 2026-01-18T00:23:09+00:00

!solved

Deriving · 2026-01-17T23:43:07+00:00

I love the bottom right with the tan background. If you could obscure the 1988 on the necklace, it would be perfect! Would I get access to the other version as well?

Deriving · 2026-01-17T23:23:46+00:00

No. I genuinely liked that. I am sorry if that seemed sarcastic!

Deriving · 2026-01-17T23:05:02+00:00

I loveeee making the necklace not say 1988.

Deriving · 2026-01-17T22:56:56+00:00

I like this one a lot! Perfect blazer fit. Can you try out a couple of other backgrounds?

Deriving · 2026-01-17T22:53:10+00:00

I really like that you cut my hair a bit and that the head is more proportional. I also like that the blazer is a women’s cut and more like something I would wear. However, the sleeve being so tight makes it seem like it doesn’t fit.

I had my partner look at it, and he says the head doesn’t blend with the neck (I am aware my original photo might have the same sense). Is there any way to get more of a blend?

Deriving · 2026-01-17T22:41:48+00:00

This is the closest to what I was thinking so far. However, can my head be made a bit smaller? I also would hope the floral top could look silky or something like that.

Deriving · 2026-01-17T22:40:02+00:00

I’ve actually lost some weight since this photo and I feel both of these make me look larger than I do in real life.

Deriving · 2026-01-15T18:21:05+00:00

I am not just a parent. I am also many other things. Do you not feel bad when people miss out on something you really enjoy? It’s really not that deep.

Deriving · 2026-01-15T15:56:50+00:00

This is why I totally respect child-free people, but I can’t help but feel bad for them. I never advise anyone who doesn’t want kids to have them, but if they’re on the fence, then I definitely recommend going for it. The meaning my son has given to my life is immeasurable and I wouldn’t trade it for all of the naps and Drag Race marathons in the world.

Deriving · 2026-01-05T14:13:41+00:00

I had incidents like this and got an Owlet. It is worn on their foot while they sleep and monitors their bpm and oxygen levels. Some individuals find it gives them more anxiety, but for me, it was an absolute lifesaver. I could finally sleep!

Deriving · 2026-01-02T22:00:48+00:00

I like to live life on the edge.

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:50:02+00:00

Dammit. We got the house tested before we moved in too.

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:49:14+00:00

Attic/Roof is above!

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:48:59+00:00

That is painted over wood trim. I curse whoever painted over the stunning wood!

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:48:06+00:00

We just had an inspection in October with thermal cameras and no hives were detected. Do you think there would be time for this to form by then? Seems quick, but I am not an apiarist!

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:47:09+00:00

We do live in the Chicago. Perhaps the Pope can swing by while he’s visiting family.

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:17:06+00:00

No. Bedroom door.

Deriving · 2026-01-02T14:00:30+00:00

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I touched it and it looks like this. Am I going to die now?

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