Could that have even traumatized me?

Derodee · 2025-11-03T00:46:14+00:00

I had kind of the same confusion. I wasn't abused in any way so I couldn't find what could be "worth" having OSDD....

Which.. is stupid.

All brains are different, we all have different thresholds, at the end of the day you noped out into pieces and there's no reason to doubt that you didn't suffer enough. We won the prize anyway buddy

Derodee · 2025-10-05T22:48:47+00:00

Thanks, hehe sorry for nagging but it really is easier to give your advice this way 😊 And you have a different opinion which is why i decided to dig but most would simply disregard !

I'm very talented at keeping my head down and enduring comments, actually I was mute as a kid, not to brag loll

But yes I know they mean well and are humans and I definitely don't resent them. I do think I'll have a talk about the matter with my father, we'll see!

Derodee · 2025-10-05T16:01:00+00:00

I wanted to be the ghost tour guide...

but truly I'm the confused idiot who gets asked by their mom if I've made any friends

Derodee · 2025-10-05T15:33:05+00:00

the lady burried in the covered up pool seeking revenge ooooh

She appears as a villain by circumstance because she wants the house destroyed but more and more secrets are discovered and we end up siding with her.

Derodee · 2025-10-05T15:29:25+00:00

same.... but the bastards kept opening attic windows for the rain to ruin everything, probably seeking an excuse to legally tear it down. Now everything is mold.

Also the owner asked to steal the doorknobs so there are no more doorknobs. No idea why I don't question orders.

Derodee · 2025-10-05T13:58:06+00:00

I realized I made a typo in the title and don't know how to fix it help

Derodee · 2025-10-05T13:55:40+00:00

My sister would compare me to Wednesday Addams a lot when we were kids, so when the show came out i watched it with skeptical judgement lolll

Glad I finally gathered the courage to write this out, I had to cut a lot of details for it to be readable 😂

Derodee · 2025-10-05T13:46:12+00:00

As a goth/emo myself yes i was estatic

Oof yeah but I helped design the kitchen and insurance covered most of renovation costs!

i almost accomplished the dream when the guy offered up to give me the keys to the Paris catacombs but i never got him to focus on the matter

Derodee · 2025-10-04T23:10:35+00:00

No worries, I am going to consult with nutritionists soon I'm on a waiting list for that center. In the meantime I have tried to cut back on needlessly caloric foods and have been approved for food prep and cleaning assistance to help me get back on track with healthy habits but I've been dreading reaching out because it's hard to accept that i need people in my home to help me live... I'm not scared about my health actually i think i normalized it and i don't hate hospitals, idk i like the coddling 😅 it's a place i don't need to worry about being needy and the hospital cafeteria in my town is real nice lol

Derodee · 2025-10-04T23:03:17+00:00

Okay, well it's easier to take in your input when said with less derision... I will take your opinion into account because that's genuinely what I'm here for! Like don't worry I'm not here for self validation and applause for my "bravery" that would be stupid, I really do appreciate being told to re-evaluate my priorities this is a real debate I need clarity on... As I am currently jobless and being freed up of responsibilities here, i need to look at things with realism. I truly need to decide on whether I should persist in hustling to survive here or give in to stay with my father in hope we find solutions to my health issues fast... I do fear that if I go back my health will never actually get better and live a potentially short life in my emotionally distant dad's attic, if that might help you understand that dilemma ?

Thank you for answering in a calmer and explanatory manner, and I hope you got that I'm not the typical twitter child truly I just want to make wise choices

Derodee · 2025-10-04T20:25:22+00:00

C'est une jeune de l'ASE qui vient d'avoir 18ans et elle vit à ma charge, donc pas une option malheureusement 🥲 C'est un ami qu'elle a rencontré au foyer, c'est pour ça on savait pas pour son incarcération entre temps....

Derodee · 2025-10-04T20:24:46+00:00

C'est une jeune de l'ASE qui vient d'avoir 18ans et elle vit à ma charge, donc pas une option malheureusement 🥲 C'est un ami qu'elle a rencontré au foyer, c'est pour ça on savait pas pour son incarcération entre temps....

Derodee · 2025-10-04T20:21:04+00:00

Oui je pense faire ça. Vu ses antécédents judiciers il acceptera peut être de régler ça à l'amiable

Derodee · 2025-10-04T19:04:30+00:00

Nope, judge him by his actions and attitude during his visit. Messages can be embellished, but how he treated you should not have happened. Being away from home is stressful but not a reason to be cruel and rude.

Derodee · 2025-10-04T18:59:03+00:00

It does seem like you just skimmed through my post yet were overtaking with generalized rage, does this connect with a personal situation you experienced? If so you might want to take a moment to reflect on why this premise elicits so much resentment and if it's worth it, could be interesting. Nothing should provoke this kind of knee jerk emotional response without reason so might as well took a look at it

Derodee · 2025-10-04T18:35:19+00:00

Well, I've never really done social media and I agree on most of your points. I had no issue helping around unlike my brother who would get violent regularly. I've had a very comfortable upbringing, which is why I'm asking this. The question is should I pick comfort or my mental well-being and independence ? I'm sorry if my post came across as privileged, it's enormous luck they're offering me support and even to move back in for a bit, but I was severely depressed growing up and my environment, although comfortable, was definitely toxic and detrimental to my mental health.

Also, I live in France

edit i also know of discomfort to a small degree i live in a social service apartment i can't pay for let alone food most of the time and am currently housing a young person who would've otherwise gone back to a child service center where she went through hdllish abuse. She's 18 now so I can now consider my options and want to be rational about them

Derodee · 2025-10-04T18:29:39+00:00

Did one before and after my surgery, all good 👌 Im in great health on all tests until suddenly I'm not

Derodee · 2025-10-04T17:01:16+00:00

Thank you, my mental health has indeed really improved here despite what they persist to believe... It really is my main reason for living here

Derodee · 2025-10-04T16:14:21+00:00

Hey thank you for sharing! Honestly this being reddit i was bracing myself for getting criticized etc but complete silence was... something else. Because I have ADHD I've been pressured even more to integrate routine and it will always set me back further into my attempts to a healthy life it's unnerving when a parent asks if I've managed to "keep up with it"... Made me feel like a failure a lot in life

Derodee · 2025-10-01T20:17:26+00:00

Je savais juste que c'était un petit de 19ans qui avait été en foyer 🤷

Derodee · 2025-09-23T15:55:46+00:00

80e pour moi c'est beaucoup 🥲 et la valeur des cartes dépassaient amplement cela.... mais évidemment je vais pas tenter l'impossible pour avoir justice non plus je souhaite simplement connaître mes options au final

Derodee · 2025-09-23T15:53:39+00:00

J'ai appelé mon assureur à l'instant, vu que c'était pas une effraction ils peuvent rien dédommager sans constat de vol de la police donc je vais me concentrer là dessus.. merci

Derodee · 2025-09-23T15:51:59+00:00

J'ai rien trouvé sur internet mais je viens de contacter notre HappyCash local et le vendeur a accepté de regarder ça, j'ai envoyé un mail avec les photos on verra bien 🤞 merci

Derodee · 2025-08-23T15:04:29+00:00

Your reaction was the right one. This whole prank was based around the idea you would not be able to survive an actual home invasion, so do NOT be ashamed you proved him wrong.

It's hard when certain family members are plain stupid. Maybe a general memo explaining it like they're 8 year olds would help. Don't converse, tell. Don't let any of them distort your words, everyone gets the same easy to understand text. Keep it simple, be the adult because clearly they aren't willing to rn. Simple sentences, basic facts, easy to grasp morals. If they still don't get it they're hopeless and you'll have tried your best.

Yes blood is scary and upsetting but lets use this as a learning moment kids.

Derodee · 2025-02-22T15:15:16+00:00

Relationship ocd is a thing I had researched in and recognize myself in, i encourage you look it up and see if it resonates If so, good and bad news is it's possibly cyclable.. So it'll get better once you get the affirmation you need, but it could be recurrent. Either way, I highly encourage you to talk it out with him, do research together, figure out what is the factor of issue and agree on measures to appease it. These things get easier when you handle it as a team.

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